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willowfox said:Hex 42 if you are still with him then the relationship gets better, and the problems recede. It will be like a flower blossoming but it does not last. After a while it all goes down hill once again, if you can get him to completely change his ways then the relationship has a chance of survival, if it goes back to the original rock and roll that you have now, then that's it and soon.
Yes, that's what I think, too - which is why I habitually read answers to 'Should I [make this big change]?' as answers to 'What'd it mean for me if I did?' - unless something different really leaps off the page at me.willowfox said:When sparkler said "should I..? I believe that the idea of calling it a day is well and truly in her thoughts. http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/editpost.php?do=editpost&p=41855
sparkler said:...i will ask the I Ching as has been suggested,"what would it be like if i did end the relationship"...or can anyone suggest a more effective question for this situation...
sparkler said:hi all, i asked the I Ching, "what will be the outcome if i stay in this relationship?"...the answer i got was hexagram 11 lines 2 and 3 changing to hexagram 24...any thoughts on this please? It seems a bit of a contrast to hexagram 21.
sparkler said:oh dear, that is a blunt and negative reply...no subtlety there!
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What do others think...is willowfoxs' interpretation the most fitting to the situation?
sparkler said:thanks for that bruce...there seem to be a number of ways of looking at these readings...
willowfox said:"what are my partners true intentions towards me?", and got hexagram 32.
He sees himself as the dominant partner and you as the gentle and submissive woman, the married couple. He takes no notice of the problems in the relationship, he is quite happy to continue as is, he is not going to change. He has settled the matter in his mind how he wants the relationship to be and that is that.
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