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[meganj]

This was a question I asked regarding my ex, we are still friends.
And lately i've been getting the feeling he's starting to get feelings for me again :/
this makes me nervous because of how our break up went.

so I asked, does Gary have feelings for me?
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I can totally see how he might feel conflicted because I feel the same way.
This is very scary because I don't want to get hurt again.

I was told by another member through a private meeting that he wasn't the guy for me because he's really outgoing and i'm super shy, not just because of that but he has water energy and i'm fire :/ this was through a reading done months ago, after we split.

Everyone else thinks he's good for me, but I don't know.

:bows:

 

[gene]

meganj

As far as whether he is good for you, I cannot tell on this basis alone. The conflict that you have to deal with however, is within you. It may be within Gary too, but you need not be concerned about that. Before anything else can happen, you must face up to your own conflict, your own fears, and decide what is ultimately best for you. When you are clear within yourself, then the commentary says, "Whatever a person possesses within the strength of his/her own nature, cannot be lost." Do not worry about your "prestige" or your fear of loss. Concern yourself only with discovering what is right for you in this situation, then go for it. Because once you determine what is right, the outcome can only be for good.

Gene