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So, here you asked about this (other) person's plans and about their expectations of the relationship ...I got 53.2.4.6 changing to 28.
Thank you and all others very much. I thought so, it looked promising but he's not changing at all.what are his plans with me 53.2.4.6 > 28
Eat together (either literally eat, or have sexual encounters), for a short time, then fly away.
Gradual progress towards something too heavy to bear.
28 is also the hexagram which can mean the male has no desire for the female.
what to expect from him, what kind of behavior 28.2.4.6 > 53
An old man marries a young (or new) wife. Are you much younger than him?
Line 28.4 shows a lot of desire, but also there's an ulterior motive.
28.6 shows a woman drowning and suffering, too much water, too many unfulfilled desires.
53 shows that the situation progresses as described in the lines of 28.
(The allusion to young or 'new' wife might also mean he'll find someone new.)
what does he actually want 32 uc
There's no change in what he wants from you.
Agree dfreed.I always find it interesting (and odd) that so many people ask things like 'what do they (he, she or they) feel', or 'what are their plans' .... It feels like a wholly passive approach, as if people are saying, 'my feelings really don't count, and I'll just go along with whatever they are feeling, or what they (the other) wants to do'.
he's like scheduling one woman after another and he told me he's expecting to marry some woman that he barely knows
If this were me, and I knew and felt all this, I don’t think I’d need to ask the Yi about how either i feel or how he feels.... I'm only a guest where I used to be at home, he's ... scheduling one woman after another and he told me he's expecting to marry some woman that he barely knows ....
I agree it's not the best question for an oracle, but sometimes Yi will play along and answer, and I think it did this time.I always find it interesting (and odd) that so many people ask things like 'what do they (he, she or they) feel', or 'what are their plans' ....
What can any relationship with him bring 37.4.5.6 > 55. Yea, it does sound nice.
'Nice' - that depends on what you are looking for in life and in a couple.
The cast describes a situation where we have a rich family (37.4), a man approaching the family as if he's a big-shot king (37.5), but at the top there's an aggressive and authoritative woman who puts him back in his position (37.6). 55 shows that this scenario will be long-living, with many ups and downs.
So, is one of you very rich? And, can you be aggressive and take the upper hand with force? Can you tolerate cheating if a rich house compensates for it? If this is the case, then there's a chance of success. Different people look for different things - others crave riches and power, others do not find these appealing at all.
If this scenario does not describe you in any manner, then my guess is that he's already in an established relationship with someone else. And he won't leave her - he'll cheat on her, but won't leave her, and she won't leave him either. It's not a scenario of love and happiness, and yet it's a sustainable one. I'm sure you've seen many couples who stay together for similar reasons.
Have a think about what you're truly after. There's no right or wrong - you want what you want. Just ask yourself and answer honestly (to yourself) what that is
Was this a real thing for you, or just your fantasy?I wanted to sue him afterwards for fraud
The king retains his autonomy. He can choose to be part of a relationship - or he can choose not to be.
Plenty of experiences with the line are from women finding he chooses not to be, or not with her. A common theme: someone taking charge of his/her life.
"Impressive" is also might or power.
Situation is complicated. We love each other and we share a lot, that's why we got engaged in the first place. There are unresolved issues, of course, I am still mad at him for what he has done. But regardless of that, we are in the same field of work and it's going to get even more complicated to avoid him as the time progresses. There is still that idea that we could somehow work it out although it's a looot of work and I needed to know if his intentions were pure when he said that he wanted to try again to see how it's going. It sucks so bad to see him seeing that woman that he cheated on me with. And just being that pure dickhead he's been before we moved in. He was better while he was with me. I just didn't know if it was worth the shot. Okay now? Please don't be condescending, I spent now almost two years being involved with him in some way. I can't cross it and never think about it again that easily.Was this a real thing for you, or just your fantasy?
I am getting increasingly baffled by your reading, and why you even asked it: you say he treated you badly, that he's an awful person, and that he has lots of other women, and that he's going to marry one of them even though he doesn't know her (maybe because she's young and hot?) ....
- and they you ask, 'what are his plans' and 'what can I expect from him' ?
This might be 28.4 and/or 28.6 at work.And I want revenge... to humiliate him like he humiliated me.
You're trapped in gambler's mindset: because you've lost so much already, you want to keep playing to get what you lost back. He will never give you what you lost back, sorry to say this. The more you associate with this person, the more you'll keep losing. It's painful and unfair, I understand - but please think about it. The more you 'stay', the more you'll lose. And the main thing you're losing is your precious time. We do not have endless time on this planet.I feel so defeated. I want to make something out of it.
I blocked him from facebook, he's calling me insane. I wish he was more clear about that because I don't know if I am willing to risk my life again on such a person. If I ever get a straightforward answer it won't be from him but from higher planes. that's what is so tricky. Perhaps IChing was warning me to make it really slow if I want to see it blossoming again but it hurts so much to see him being a jerk like he was before and being even more confident about it. Aaargh.This might be 28.4 and/or 28.6 at work.
I don't know what translation you have. Here's Hilary's:
28.4: 'The ridgepole at its peak, good fortune.
If there is more, shame.'
28.6: 'Exceeding in wading the river, head underwater.
Pitfall.
No mistake.'
Line 4 kind of speaks for itself - the roof hasn't quite tumbled down yet, but if you put any more strain on it, it will.
Line 6 - The beginning can probably also be taken at face value.
The last phrase, "No mistake," seems to imply that even if you wade in above your head and bad things happen as a result (pitfall), it's not a mistake, it's not wrong to do. Maybe pitfall is an acceptable price to pay for some satisfaction. I had an example like that myself once, and I'm still not sure how I feel about it or whether I'd do it again if I got line 6.
Also, it turns out that "no mistake" can just as easily be translated as "no blame." Those can be very different in real life. It's probably a good idea to think about both of them and see how each feels.
In other words, if you take steps to humiliate him and bad things happen, maybe no one could quite blame you, but that doesn't make it a good idea. Do you see what I mean? You'll have to decide if whatever you have in mind is worth it.
Maybe. In all this flurry of posts, did you happen to see my other one (no. 16)? I thought maybe the 28-53 readings and the relating hexagram 55 in the other one might have to do with that. But there are the two line 6s (28.6 and 53.6), so I still wonder if you'll each move on.Perhaps IChing was warning me to make it really slow if I want to see it blossoming again
To my demise of course, he neither risks nor loses anything.
Bet you that's 37.5. If you're in WikiWing, go and read all of Hilary's notes.it hurts so much to see him being a jerk like he was before and being even more confident about it
Blocking someone is probably a little like wielding truth like an axe, and it's beyond your walls in a way.The effects of the home spread beyond its walls. Being 'impressive': a woman with an axe. (Also means 'husband'.) Having truth like power you can wield, being a very present authority.
That was not my intention, just not really understanding all this, or why you were asking what you did, when the situation seems obvious. But regardless, can I assume that you now have the information you need?Please don't be condescending, I spent now almost two years being involved with him in some way.
Actually he was the one who initiated contact and proposed some new romance that might lead to a marriage and I asked him if he considered if I wanted it or not, not just bluntly "well I thought you finish your uni and then you can move in with me". At that point I didn't want repeating of our history where I leave everything only to be let down, so he downtoned, he proposed we see each other until we move on or find someone new, better. I just wanted to see his behavior and it barely changed from before so I decided to just cut contact. That might be my revenge minus the lawsuit.Well with any luck Facebook pitfalls are relatively mild pitfalls. (Though I'm not on Facebook so maybe I'm clueless.)
Maybe. In all this flurry of posts, did you happen to see my other one (no. 16)? I thought maybe the 28-53 readings and the relating hexagram 55 in the other one might have to do with that. But there are the two line 6s (28.6 and 53.6), so I still wonder if you'll each move on.
Bet you that's 37.5. If you're in WikiWing, go and read all of Hilary's notes.
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