Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
What should I do 39
Get more help about this situation. I am trying to find a therapist right now (have been looking anyway) and money is an issue. I found one that will see me once a month but I think I need more than that.
Sd I go to NY for ThanksGiving? 5..1.2-39
I cannot read this because I cannot be objective at all.
What sd I do about the gossipy sister 43.2.5-55
Remain cool and calm. Be cuatious and persevere, this is not a one time thing
How will I feel after I go (if I did go) 29.1.6-61
This seems like don't go. That I would feel like crap, it would be dangerous and undo the good I have been doing for myself.
I am very upset because of the way my sisters and my mother were gossiping aobut me. I found out about it becuase one of my sisters J broke ranks and told me about the conversation. She said the other sister P said some very negative things aobut me.
Now the problem is the holidays are coming up and my daughter is living with my mother at the moment. I know my daughter wants to have the holiday with them because of all the food they cook and it would be more people than just the 2 of us.This incident has been causing me anguish since July when it happened and today my daughter tried to talk me into going there for TG but made it clear she very much wanted to have the holiday with them.
What should I do 39
Get more help about this situation. I am trying to find a therapist right now (have been looking anyway) and money is an issue. I found one that will see me once a month but I think I need more than that.
Sd I go to NY for ThanksGiving? 5..1.2-39
I cannot read this because I cannot be objective at all.
What sd I do about the gossipy sister 43.2.5-55
Remain cool and calm. Be cuatious and persevere, this is not a one time thing
How will I feel after I go (if I did go) 29.1.6-61
This seems like don't go. That I would feel like crap, it would be dangerous and undo the good I have been doing for myself.
I don't think its a case of racing around looking for help, I think what may be needed more is a pause. You need to pause to see you can't climb over the obstacle, the mountain with your current appraoch. You need to reimagine the situation.. You are viewing the situation like a great big mountain in front of you....but maybe you could go around it rather than over it...and also what really is the nature of that mountain. Apart from therapists what other allies might there be here...your daughter, your mum...39 suggests you don't isolate yourself or see yourself as the lone combatant
How will I feel after I go (if I did go) 29.1.6-61
where sd i spend Thanksgiving (US holiday last thursday in NOV)
23.2.3.6-46
strip away (unwanted) to push upwards
Good question...I have found that a useful question. Hmmm well I feel it might all be a bit too much, too many chasms (hex 29) experienced intensely (hex 61)
I'm not saying don't go....but if you do go...or even if you don't try to feel less urgency about all this. It isn't urgent, these problems will still be there tomorrow and you need a bit of time to take a slightly different view of them. There are some problems there but 5.1.2>39 is definitately not saying "go and deal with it all right now" IMO. 29>61 certainly speaks of much truth coming out but there can be such a thing as too much truth to sustain if you are emotionally wobbly.
Anyway first of all take a breath and tell yourself this is not urgent, then you might be able to think clearer
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).