Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
What is this "week of silence?" This is supposed to be a relationship, not a monastery, right? Will chanting be allowed during the week of silence? Aaaaahaaa Aaaahaa Ahaaaem.... Are you mourning the dead or something? Maybe the week of silence is for the dead relationship...
Get a ferret and get out, don't look back, don't even talk about him... Just move on... And get a ferret
So my supposed bf, changed his mind yet again, I feel like my emotions are being strung along like it doesn't matter how I feel.
"why does he keep changing his mind, and go from hot to cold back to hot?"
43.4.6>9
"Should I just forget about him and move on?"
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Perhaps I will find my joy in not pursuing him.
"How does he feel about us?"
29.3.4>28
3>Danger upon danger, he is pausing and waiting for a way out of this situation.
4>If we help each other then we can find a way out together, I think this could also be related to my moving out.
"will he come back or is he done?"
3
"should I stay away from him?"
9.5>26
"Why does he want a week of no talking at all?"
45.3>31
god trojan u r soo right.. my best friend has been telling me from the start ive been accomodating his selfish needs! i didnt listen to her tho becuz i love him, ive been dwindling away slowly because of a lack of energy. i dont do the things i enjoy anymore because im being emotionally drained. i felt things werent right the moment i moved with him to be with him. he pressured me into the relationship, it was a now or never thing.. and slowly i started to lose my independancy and confidence.
now look where this ended up.
thanks all for replying, i needed a little time out after this emotionally exhausting time.
a bit has changed since i last posted, things took a turn for the worse and we ended things rather badly.. overwhelmed, confused and having my emotions toyed with, well lets just say i reacted to all this very immaturely.
i said things i now regret and im sure he has too, nothing we can do about it now.
im now back in my hometown, we both agreed we could not be together another day.
im very disappointed at his being unable to hold back from me as we agreed so there would not be tension or any further difficulties and also how i reacted after he pushed me away. i pretty much freaked out, got very upset.
we text scant words here n there about remaining arrangements..
i feel burdened because of all this. good friends turned to... nothing now.
why do I always judge myself so harshly whenever my relationships end?
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like seriously it holds me back.. i feel badly for reactions and it takes me awhile to get myself together. i realize that this is not fully my fault, yet i feel so badly.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).