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Meng, by the way, where do you see the Hexagram 35 coming into the reading? Also, is there a better question I should be asking?
"Why won't X let me see the letter?" The casting was 23.4 changing to 35.
Meng, by the way, where do you see the Hexagram 35 coming into the reading? Also, is there a better question I should be asking?
Having recast now, I asked the question: How do I best respond to Xs treatment of me in this situation? And I have received 42, unchanging.
Having recast now, I asked the question: How do I best respond to Xs treatment of me in this situation? And I have received 42, unchanging. Wow. Not what I expected at all. Of course, there isn't any hexagram that says to hit her with a piece of heavy furniture, is there?
So, Increase. Increase what I am doing? Continue to be generous with her and support her, even though she's pulled this trap around me? Demand a raise? I have to say, it is the most ham-fisted human resources approach on record. I'm not sure it's intentional, so much as incompetent. Maybe increase what I am trying to teach them? Another dimension here, they do have a person they hired before I arrived, who is occupying a management position that would have ideally suited my skills. She has inspired some of what is going on now with my boss; I think because her lack of education for the job, that she works mostly from native instinct rather than any professional background or preparation, leaves her feeling vulnerable. They have been worried from the start that she will see me as a threat. This, and budgetary constraints, are the reasons that they ask me to "on the record" hold a basic position while being paid additionally as a consultant rather than having a formal fulltime mangement "role". Anyway, the letter and other criticism my supervisor is now dealing with, all came from this third person, whom I apparently threaten. I suppose, this puts my boss in a squeeze-play as well.
I know, it's really complicated and too much emotion is invested to make much professional sense of events. But Increase, hexagram 42, is certainly a focused answer. NOW all I have to do, is figure what behavior that calls for. If you have any further ideas, all contributions gratefully accepted!
"Why did she lie to me?"
The answer: Hexagram 19,
Can anyone elaborate on Hexagram 19? The meaning I've known is "Approach" which always sounds quite positive in most readings. Why was this "approach" so negative? Is lying going to be the way she approaches me? Or are there meanings here I don't know?
Ok, I've been looking at the general image more closely now and I can see the aspect of "Teaching" you are talking about here. I suppose I've always thought of 19 in such a positive light: expansion and growth. As a person probably suffering from the expansion and growth problems at work, if this lady losing her grip? I mean, for a year, we've been great friends. This is anomalous what she has done.
And I've also found this statement in the archives, posted by Ginnie:
When the IC answers with hex 19 unchanging, it is telling me something along these lines: "Good question! Good approach that you thought to ask a question! Ask more questions along these same lines, and things will become clearer for you."
So I've aksed, "What is she trying to teach me?" And I got Hexagram 57, changing lines 3,4,5,6; becoming Hexagram 40. Hmmmm. I've gotten this before about Seal Assignment. But whose assignment: hers or mine? Does she see this as a life mission and I'm in the way of it? And what are we releasing here? In a way, her behavior I think is so ingrained in her anxiety ridden personality, she almost has no choice but to react in a bizarre way when overloaded. And now I'm eminently aware of it. Was this just a "release" for her -- and now she can live to regret being perceived as untrustworthy? Thoughts?
Willow, I know you are the Fox, gliding in and out silently, more or less. But I really appreciate when you provide some explanation of how you got there. Do you have the hexagrams more or less in mind all the time from prior experience, or do you actually refer to various books as you go?
"Why did she lie to me?"
The answer: Hexagram 19,
Overseeing.
Eminent - expansion. Harvest - determination. Reaching the eighth moon there is a pitfall.
tr.v., -saw (-sô'), -seen (-sēn'), -see·ing, -sees.
verb
- To watch over and direct; supervise. See synonyms at supervise.
- To subject to scrutiny; examine or inspect.
- To direct and watch over the work and performance of others: boss, overlook, superintend, supervise, watch over. See over/under.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
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+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
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