How can I meet the one? 38.1.6 to 40

[Medea28]

Hello, everyone! The exact question was: what do I have to do in order to meet the right guy? Hex 38.1.6 to 40.I was first tempted to think the answer was referring to my ex, but things have gotten so bad between us...I don't think he's right for me anymore. Is Yi trying to tell me that what's good for me is not the same thing with what I think is good? That I should change my type? Or that I'm too critical of people? Thanks!

 

[equinox]

Find a healthy balance between running after somebody (or running after the idea of urgently wanting somebody) and backing away because of distrust. Hex 40 in this context: Free yourself from everything, possibly past time experiences, that makes you behave either clingy or aloof/standoffish, or both at the same time as an interplay of such behaviour patterns. Good luck!

 

[steve]

I could only add if the advice is taken, it leads to hexagram 40.

The rain comes, the drought is over

Steve

 

[Medea28]

Equinox, Steve, thank you both!Yes, I have a hard time letting go and also trust issues.