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I mean how do I mange it in general. I have no partner to burn outDoes not sound like any long term prospects here, in what you are doing now. If you are overly dependent, you will burn your partners out.
- LL
I asked "How do I manage my sexual energy?" and got 30.1.2.3.4> 4
This. After reading the answers I thought it was better to phrase my question differently, like "How am I managing ..." that highlights the present tense; or even better: "Please give me a picture of how am I managing...". I was asking for insight into how my sexual energy is being managed in the reality of my life now, NOT how should I manage it. And by sexual energy I mean the "libido", the raw motivating force that isn't necessarily presented by sexual activity- and I'm not sexually active at this moment (unless in my fantasies) as I have no partner.I'm now wondering if the question was simply asking for a picture of how you manage your sexual energy - in which case you have a crystal clear picture there?
That's right. I first need someone with whom I can have a constructive sexual relationship, which isn't the case of most guys I encounter. They are hungry for sex as if they want to record a score. No real communication. Even no real attraction to the other party. Just having sex with as much girls (people?) as possible. I even doubt it's really about sexual urge because I don't see the energy, the "physical symptoms" of a horny person in them, if you know what I'm saying. More of a competition with other guys & ego validation. They often need drugs/alcohol to open up & go farther. No genuine move. No genuine pleasure. I find having sex with these people non-sense, if not destructive. And I'm sure they add nothing to me- of course if it's not confirmation of my idea that there is no point in having sex with them. It will be a waste of sexual energy indeed.I'm not sure but I'd suggest getting to know your own process better and also maybe notice it doesn't reach your heart where the tears are in line 5.
And I wanted knowledge- consciousness of what's happening- when I sterted itThis post is very much a 'stream of consciousness' it's not a reading I could come to a conclusion on, naturally since it's very private, but it's a very interesting reading isn't it.
Well pointed.And of course we are talking about sexual energy and sexual experience not in connection with another person but what it is just for you, your own sexual nature.
Good point. Maybe this was what Freud was onto when he talked about sexual sublimation and some activities being symbolic substitutes for sex. Like all energy is sexual energy at it's source, the eternal pull of yin and yang. So then can the question be simplified to "How do I manage my energy?"
You are spot on Trojina! Although sex is funny, I can't find the famous connection between it and emotions.In line 5, which you didn't get, there's floods of tears, as there can be after sex, but you don't get that far.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).