How has my behaviour been like with my ex-partner during our relationship?

[Medusazul]

Hello everyone!

I hope someone could help me with this reading. It's very important to me right now.
I've recently ended a relationship with a man I loved. It has not been an easy one, at all. I've been complicated with my attachment wounds but I wanted nevertheless to make the relationship grow. I looked for guidance from a therapist, talked to my partner through the process, and so on. Finally, I started feeling he was slowly withdrawing, and that detachment grew with time. But that thing about trauma issues is that I always feel everything is my fault, my wrongdoing, the way I overreact, and such.
The breakup (he directly stopped talking to me), is painful, but the doubt of my wrongdoing is way more unbearable to me.
So I asked Yi: How has my behavior been like with my ex-partner during our relationship?
Result: Hex 55.1.4 changing to 15.

Thanks in advance, dear community!

 

[rosada]

You did nothing wrong.
55.1 “The outer lord” and 55.4 “the inner lord” would indicate a harmony between inner and outer feelings but line one does indicate the friendship only lasts for a limited time.
15. Also symbolizes someone who is without blame.
Rather than worrying too much about what you did wrong I urge you to figure it was just one of those things…

 

[Medusazul]

Thanks Rosada,
I'm a huge follower of your comments on every thread, so I'm happy to read your words. I guess the follow-up question should be, what do I have to learn from this experience, rather than looking for mistakes, right?

 

[rosada]

Thanks!
What did I learn from this? Is always a good question.
Another way of phrasing it could be “Please describe that relationship,” cause lets face it, do we ever learn???