Is My Marriage OK?

[Sun Wukong]

Things have been off between my partner and I lately, and for some reason it's really worrying me.
I asked: what's her attitude/feelings towards me as of now?
Hexagram 46 UC, Pushing Upward.

I may be not be seeing this clearly, but I feel this could mean she's either outgrown our relationship or perhaps is simply ready to move on.

Then I asked: what if I ask her about our relationship as it stands right now?
Hexagram 22.1.3 to 23, Grace.

My immediate thought was that she would lie. I understand this could be a knee-jerk reaction, but I'm unsure as to how to interpret this one.

I know it's not reasonable to ask how she sees me; so, I also asked: what is the state of my marriage right now?
Hexagram 63.3 to 3, After Completion.

Is it already over? Is it time to make a fresh start? This one sounds especially bad, but these things can seem to spiral once panicked.

Am I overthinking this? Any sort of insight would help.

 

[my_key]

Things have been off between my partner and I lately, and for some reason it's really worrying me.
I asked: what's her attitude/feelings towards me as of now?
Hexagram 46 UC, Pushing Upward.

Things don't come easy for your partner in relationship and she is working as best she can at fulfilling the potential of your togetherness.

Then I asked: what if I ask her about our relationship as it stands right now?
Hexagram 22.1.3 to 23, Grace.

Your relationship is held in a free fall limbo (23) right now. Tread carefully. 22 speaks to a sense of understanding the beauty in what you have rather than seeking to make it more than it is. If you ask her there could well be a tipping of a balance however it could well bring some greater clarity with it.

I know it's not reasonable to ask how she sees me; so, I also asked: what is the state of my marriage right now?
Hexagram 63.3 to 3, After Completion.

Your marriage is currently going through a phase where things are being set right. It requires deep soul searching and a pondering of the distress you are both feeling. From here it may be possible to find the necessary protective measures, for you both, that can be taken in the event of different eventualities (63). Consider your situation to be wrapped in opportunity for new beginnings (3).

63.3 - How you are proceeding in this battle is exhausting for you both. There is way too much engagement with the petty on both sides.

... or it might mean something completely different for you.

Good Luck

 

[Sun Wukong]

Things don't come easy for your partner in relationship and she is working as best she can at fulfilling the potential of your togetherness.

Your relationship is held in a free fall limbo (23) right now. Tread carefully. 22 speaks to a sense of understanding the beauty in what you have rather than seeking to make it more than it is. If you ask her there could well be a tipping of a balance however it could well bring some greater clarity with it.

Your marriage is currently going through a phase where things are being set right. It requires deep soul searching and a pondering of the distress you are both feeling. From here it may be possible to find the necessary protective measures, for you both, that can be taken in the event of different eventualities (63). Consider your situation to be wrapped in opportunity for new beginnings (3).

63.3 - How you are proceeding in this battle is exhausting for you both. There is way too much engagement with the petty on both sides.

... or it might mean something completely different for you.

Good Luck

I woke up this morning feeling much better about everything despite not sleeping well. And now I have your valuable input as well!

I had the feeling I wasn't seeing this clearly. Your interpretation confirms my feelings this morning: it's going to be fine as long as I straighten myself out and give my wife the chance to do the same.

Thank you for your interpretation.

 

[rosada]

22.1.2 changes to 18. (Not 23)

 

[Sun Wukong]

22.1.2 changes to 18. (Not 23)

It's 22.1.3.

 

[rosada]

Duh!
Thank you.

 

[Sun Wukong]

Duh!
Thank you.

Wish I could say I've never done that before