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Spezzaneve
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- Joined
- Feb 9, 2015
- Messages
- 13
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Hi all, hope you're good and safe.
Haven't asked questions to IC for a while, but today I felt the urge to do it.
I asked IC about a strange relationship I've with this person for 2 years. We're not and were never "officially" engaged, we live in different cities and throught common friends we had meet each other a couple of times. I've known this person since I was 16 (11 years ago) and she magically came back in my life in the last 2-3 years.
Our biggest problem was always about communication. Last time I saw this huge wall between me and her and I realized that probably, despite my best efforts, this thing between us can't work. We haven't write to each other for 1 month now, and I felt that I was getting over it. Or at least that's what I thought.
Today I saw that she posted in her social a frame about a love story between next-door neighbours, with lyrics of a song about a green-eye guy who left a lot of sadness in her soul. This hit me, because she's not a romantic person and absolutely not in her style.
This caused me a strange sensation, as if my head had get over it but not my heart, which is actually in the dark.
So I decided to ask:
"Is it completely over between me and her?" 46.3.4 > 40
I don't get the meaning of the single lines of this cast, but my overall impression is that the IC saying to me "just move on and free youself from this situation (40)".
Just to be sure I asked:
"Is she in love with another guy?" 13.4.5.6 > 36
In particular it catch my attention the line 5:
Men bound in fellowship first weep and lament,
But afterward they laugh.
After great struggles they succeed in meeting.
Two people are outwardly separated, but in their hearts they are united.
And line 6:
Fellowship with men in the meadow.
No remorse.
The warm attachment that springs from the heart is lacking here. We are by this time actually outside of fellowship with others. However, we ally ourselves with them. The fellowship does not include all, but only those who happen to dwell near one another.
Line 6 is talking about neighbour and people dwelling near one another. I guess this is a confirmation of the fact that I'm not that guy. So I asked a clarification about line 5:
"Is it me the person she is suffering for?" 25.3.6 > 49
Six in the third place means:
Undeserved misfortune.
The cow that was tethered by someone
Is the wanderer's gain, the citizen's loss.
I wonder If here I'm the wanderer or the citizen.
Nine at the top means:
Innocent action brings misfortune.
Nothing furthers.
When, in a given situation, the time is not ripe for further progress, the best thing to do is to wait quietly, without ulterior designs.
So all this seems a big NO for me actually.. My last question to IC was:
"What does she feel about me?" 38.1 > 64
Nine at the beginning means:
Remorse disappears.
If you lose your horse, do not run after it;
It will come back of its own accord.
When you see evil people,
Guard yourself against mistakes.
All I'm getting from this is that this is a premature time to trying to connect again with her, and that her heart is now struggling with someone else (probably another one with green eyes like me and who lives next door as 13.6 is saying). She's also posting a lot on her social, so I guess she's trying to impress and communicate with someone else.
I don't know if I'm getting IC advices right and it's difficult for me to remain still and neutral at the moment, I've lot of confusion and questions inside me. I'm not sure anymore about my choice, but I feel like I can't do much right now but watch these events.
What do you think of this situation? Should I stop thinking about things I can't control and just move on with my life and be still with my decision? Any help would be really really really appreciated.
Bless you all
Haven't asked questions to IC for a while, but today I felt the urge to do it.
I asked IC about a strange relationship I've with this person for 2 years. We're not and were never "officially" engaged, we live in different cities and throught common friends we had meet each other a couple of times. I've known this person since I was 16 (11 years ago) and she magically came back in my life in the last 2-3 years.
Our biggest problem was always about communication. Last time I saw this huge wall between me and her and I realized that probably, despite my best efforts, this thing between us can't work. We haven't write to each other for 1 month now, and I felt that I was getting over it. Or at least that's what I thought.
Today I saw that she posted in her social a frame about a love story between next-door neighbours, with lyrics of a song about a green-eye guy who left a lot of sadness in her soul. This hit me, because she's not a romantic person and absolutely not in her style.
This caused me a strange sensation, as if my head had get over it but not my heart, which is actually in the dark.
So I decided to ask:
"Is it completely over between me and her?" 46.3.4 > 40
I don't get the meaning of the single lines of this cast, but my overall impression is that the IC saying to me "just move on and free youself from this situation (40)".
Just to be sure I asked:
"Is she in love with another guy?" 13.4.5.6 > 36
In particular it catch my attention the line 5:
Men bound in fellowship first weep and lament,
But afterward they laugh.
After great struggles they succeed in meeting.
Two people are outwardly separated, but in their hearts they are united.
And line 6:
Fellowship with men in the meadow.
No remorse.
The warm attachment that springs from the heart is lacking here. We are by this time actually outside of fellowship with others. However, we ally ourselves with them. The fellowship does not include all, but only those who happen to dwell near one another.
Line 6 is talking about neighbour and people dwelling near one another. I guess this is a confirmation of the fact that I'm not that guy. So I asked a clarification about line 5:
"Is it me the person she is suffering for?" 25.3.6 > 49
Six in the third place means:
Undeserved misfortune.
The cow that was tethered by someone
Is the wanderer's gain, the citizen's loss.
I wonder If here I'm the wanderer or the citizen.
Nine at the top means:
Innocent action brings misfortune.
Nothing furthers.
When, in a given situation, the time is not ripe for further progress, the best thing to do is to wait quietly, without ulterior designs.
So all this seems a big NO for me actually.. My last question to IC was:
"What does she feel about me?" 38.1 > 64
Nine at the beginning means:
Remorse disappears.
If you lose your horse, do not run after it;
It will come back of its own accord.
When you see evil people,
Guard yourself against mistakes.
All I'm getting from this is that this is a premature time to trying to connect again with her, and that her heart is now struggling with someone else (probably another one with green eyes like me and who lives next door as 13.6 is saying). She's also posting a lot on her social, so I guess she's trying to impress and communicate with someone else.
I don't know if I'm getting IC advices right and it's difficult for me to remain still and neutral at the moment, I've lot of confusion and questions inside me. I'm not sure anymore about my choice, but I feel like I can't do much right now but watch these events.
What do you think of this situation? Should I stop thinking about things I can't control and just move on with my life and be still with my decision? Any help would be really really really appreciated.
Bless you all