Is this relationship over?

[emmab]

Is this relationship over? Hex51 to 24

Hi! I'm kind of new in I Ching, but since i'm experiencing this strange, depressive and confusing time in my life, i searched for answers in I Ching and most of the time, they seem easy to interpretate.

But the most painful questions are also the more confusing ones to interpretate and please, give me a help, i'd apreciate it so deeply.

I finally answered if my relationship with my boyfriend is over. Please understand, we live together, he's the most kind and sweet man i could ever imagine and it used to make to me the happiest woman on Earth. So, i don't have any reason to leave him, except for the fact that i feel miserably unhappy for about 2 months.

The answer was hex51, changing to 24. What does this mean? That is over? That some how, this is not the man of my life?

Thank you in advance for any attention you pay to this.

 

[dragona]

Seams to me you need to clear the air in order to move on. You know your circumstances the best, but can it be that your overall situation is making you think these dramatic thoughts? Just my opinion ...

 

[emmab]

Hum..is just that, i feel somehow "stuck", like i'm living somebody else's life, but not the one i was supposed to be living.
I feel i'm changing, moving to somewhere else, and that i need to "empty" the bag in order to move on and be the person i have to be. And i don't know which things in my life i'll have to leave, in order to grow and i'm afraid that i'll have to leave the more important ones. I just...i'm afraid to have to destroy everything i had built, to start all over again. Maybe i'm being very tragic, i know, but then, why do i feel that there's something wrong with my life?

 

[icastes]

51 says that you have many ups and downs with this man. You must not succumb to fear or anxiety, or else you will be humiliated (moving line 4). If you want to succeed with his love, then you must work at it. If you do, then 24 promises a good match. However, if you don't do something about it, 24 indicates a good possibility that the man might end up with a lot of girlfriends.

If this man is as good as you say, to abandon him solely for two months of unhappiness seems rather unreasonable. There is nothing wrong with your life. People have many bad periods in their lives, sometimes for many years. You can't expect to be in a state of elation for any long period of time. If you believe that you don't have a life, then work at your life, including your love life. Not doing anything is a guarantee of failure.

 

[emmab]

Thank you both