Life change move

[cornucopia]

I've been wanting to move for a long time now but I could not find the right opportunity. A chance to move to a senior residence has been offered to me. This is a permanent move. It's very important that I make the right decision. If I move and it's not good I cannot move again. This is for the rest of my life.

Please I just need clarification. I get the general impression from the hexgrams to yes move. I need confirmation from members here who are more experienced. Thank you.

These are my hexagrams. I asked many questions so as to get a general picture. The area where I'm moving is totally new to me. I've never lived there. I do not write exact address as I want to keep the address private thank you. I am so distressed about this move that I've asked the same questions twice. I know this is not right. Please I need some direction. There seems to be a story unfolding here.

WHAT DO I STAND TO GAIN IF I MOVE TO ___________(SPECIFIC ADDRESS)

HEXAGRAM 61 LINE 2 CHANGING TO HEXAGRAM 42

WHAT CAN I EXPECT IF I GO AHEAD WITH THE MOVE TO ____________(SPECIFIC ADDRESS)

HEXAGRAM 3 LINE 1 CHANGING TO HEXAGRAM 8
(I asked this question twice and hexagram 8 came up twice)

IS IT TO MY ADVANTAGE TO MOVE TO _______(SPECIFIC ADDRESS)
(I asked twice)
HEXAGRAM 40 LINES 2,4 AND 6 CHANDING TO HEXAGRAM 23
HEXAGRAM 31 LINES 2,4 AND 5 CHANGING TO HEXAGRAM 46

SHOULD I MOVE TO _____(SPECIFIC ADDRESS)
(I asked twice)
HEXAGRAM 1 LINE 5 CHANGING TO HEXAGRAM 8
HEXAGRAM 53 LINES 1,3 AND 5 CHANGING TO HEXGRAM 27

HOW WILL MY LIFE BE IF I MOVE TO __________(SPECIFIC ADDRESS) IN (SPECIFIC AREA)

HEXAGRAM 22 LINE 1 AND 2 CHANGING TO HEXAGRAM 18


ps. I know I should not be repetitive in my inquiries, but I'm desperate. This is very important.
:bows:

 

[ginnie]

I am particularly concerned with hexagram 53 line 3. One general meaning of this line is not to be hasty. One must ward off thieves or ward off enmity; protect oneself. I'd like to say that line 53.5 is auspicious and signifies that one will reach one's goal. This together with line 61.2 and hex 31 seems to be saying that you'll find lovely companionship at the new location. I regard hex 1.5 also auspicious for that specific address. There are a couple of warnings here about moving too quickly: line 53.3 and 3.1.

Is there any way you might visit the place or the locality a number of times to get to know your way around enough to size the situation up that way?

 

[cornucopia]

I am particularly concerned with hexagram 53 line 3. One general meaning of this line is not to be hasty. One must ward off thieves or ward off enmity; protect oneself. I'd like to say that line 53.5 is auspicious and signifies that one will reach one's goal. This together with line 61.2 and hex 31 seems to be saying that you'll find lovely companionship at the new location. I regard hex 1.5 also auspicious for that specific address. There are a couple of warnings here about moving too quickly: line 53.3 and 3.1.

Is there any way you might visit the place or the locality a number of times to get to know your way around enough to size the situation up that way?

Hi Ginnie, wow thanks

About being hasty actually that's my main concern. They want me to move in immediately after I see it. But I have 2 other options if I decline this offer. I'm wondering if this is what the I Ching means about not to be hasty, or is it just showing my concern.

The reason I wanted to move is because the area where I'm now has a high crime rate and I also have enmity with my neighbour who is an addict and a troublemaker. So that came out.
ok so don't rush the move that's how I feel about it. Wait maybe for a better opportunity. Your reply made me take this further. I'll ask if I'll have a better opportunity. I've seen the area and situation and have certain concerns, I will be viewing the apartment this week.

 

[cornucopia]

Hello Ginnie can you pls help me one more time?
I'm going tomorrow to see the apartment and area and I'm stressed out about it.

SHOULD I ACCEPT THE RENTAL APARTMENT AT (SPECIFIED ADDRESS)?

HEXAGRAM 42 UNCHANGED

I see it as postive but I need a second opinion to ease my mind.

 

[ginnie]

Hexagram 42 unchanging suggests the establishment of a better, more sound foundation for your life.

It speaks of benefits, conditional benefits. For example: With most bank accounts, one is asked to maintain a minimum balance, otherwise the bank charges fees. So that's an example of conditional benefits. Something is given, the security of having your money in a good bank, and something is required from you.

The R.L.Wing commentary (The I Ching Workbook), which has a section dealing with the unchanging form of each hexagram, says of 42 unchanging: "The situation will demand your consistent generosity. By demonstrating your willing commitment on a daily basis, you will eventually meet with success."

So, I agree with you, and all good luck with your visit there tomorrow. Take deep breaths and relax!

Probably Yi is just reflecting your concern with haste in giving you line 53.3. With more background info, it seems Yi is urging you to protect yourself by moving away from the unfortunate circumstances you now find yourself in.

 

[cornucopia]

Probably Yi is just reflecting your concern with haste in giving you line 53.3. With more background info, it seems Yi is urging you to protect yourself by moving away from the unfortunate circumstances you now find yourself in.

Wow Ginnie thanks! The above sentence just about covers it. This is why I'm moving. My safety is at risk. I've got these crazy neighbours who do drugs or have mental health problems - they enjoy banging on walls at night and disturbing the peace. The more I complain about it the more they bang. The police and building security are constantly monitoring them to protect me and the other tenants. But the landlord has to go through a legal process and build a case to evict them. It was taking too long so I just decided to move myself. There is a law in Canada that protects people with mental health problems the landlord can't evict them unless they do physical harm. There is no way I'm going to wait around for that to happen!

I've got a lawyer working on this to protect my rights. I might get compensated for being forced to move. Like 1 year free rent.

Thanks Ginnie

 

[cornucopia]

Hello Ginnie I just wanted to update you on the moving situation. I went loved the apartment exactly like hex 42 describes. I kept thinking about it as I was viewing it! Just like you said there was also a delay for me to sign the lease. Woman in charge was on vacation. The delay was to my advantage. Learned some unsettling things about the place from a video posted online posted by a tenant to a local newspaper reporter!! Imagine that! Conclusion will not move! Waiting for better offer. What you said quoted below makes alot of sense after all was said and done! Those warnings about moving too quickly..well now it makes sense.

I am particularly concerned with hexagram 53 line 3. One general meaning of this line is not to be hasty. One must ward off thieves or ward off enmity; protect oneself. I'd like to say that line 53.5 is auspicious and signifies that one will reach one's goal. This together with line 61.2 and hex 31 seems to be saying that you'll find lovely companionship at the new location. I regard hex 1.5 also auspicious for that specific address. There are a couple of warnings here about moving too quickly: line 53.3 and 3.1.