Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
Yes, this is correct. You understood correctly. I also agree with you, I did try my best, yes, I know this guy very well, he likes his space, if he's not communicating this is usually the reason, also the new reason I learned above. He's the type that gets pressured easily and retreats, doesn't like to be harrassed etc. This is what made me cautious I didn't want to get into trouble for pestering him, after all when someone doesn't reply it usually means they don't wish to speak, so I respected this. This is also another reason I gave him space imbetween contacting him.The whole scenario was a bit confusing to read and follow. Originally, you seemed to feel you made a mistake by telling him that if he wasnt going to respond to our texts, etc, then you were going to forget about it. I dont think that was a mistake at all, fwiw. You did try, and you were not overdoing it, but he failed to respond.
haha yes me too, thats what sent me into state of upset and confusion! I am neither, I have bent over backwards, tried my best to respect him and this situation. I did try intermittently. I didn't want to harass him. I couldn't see how pursuing would help further, apart from beating my head against a brick wall. I would have liked to have done more, plus I didn't know how he felt, sometimes its better to err on the side of caution.I was completely confused when Wf said you waited too long, or were willful or stubborn. I didnt see anywhere that you said you waited five months! It said you tried, intermittently, for five months to contact him, to no avail. So I think WF misinterpreted the post.
Yes, this is true. I had a good reason, not wanting to go further about it on here.I dont think you made mistakes. You were not saying that your original action ( calling police ) was a mistake, but imo, that didnt seem a mistake either. You were fearful. Perhaps he truly was being irrational.
This makes better sense, yes. i was looking at the line, it makes more sense to say I missed the return because I was getting no response. If you read what i just discovered about the polices warning to him- it makes perfect sense! :bows:But to get back to your readings, I never felt they indicated anything about making a mistake in waiting too long. Your 24.4.6 reading seemed to me to indicate exactly what was going on....you were attempting to make a return/reconciliation , but you were coming back alone (no response) and perhaps trying to reconcile a relationship that , for now, had reached the point of no return. It didnt have to be anyone's fault, it just wasnt an energy that could be reactivated ( at the time).
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).