Make the trip or not? 27.45>25... so confused!

[misswasabi]

Hello everyone,

I just consulted the iching to ask whether it is a good idea to do a trip or not. That would be a trip to meet someone I met online and I like very much. The problem is I have family issues that more or less require my presence in here. Also I have still issues to resolve with my former partner who doesn't want to lose me. I have lots of doubts, and I normally wouldn't go, but I feel compelled to do so because I need to scape from my current situation. The hexagram was 27.4.5>25 and I find it confusing.

Line 4 speaks of pursuing my needs
Line 5 advises not crossing the river and staying at home

So I see a contradiction here. As for 25, it still confuses me more...

Any help with that? Many thanks in advance

 

[misswasabi]

Nobody can help?

 

[diamanda]

I don't think your answer is advantageous for travelling right now.

As you said, 27.4 describes your needs, and 27.5 advises staying at home.
I don't see any contradiction - you feel your needs and want to go, but the best action is not going.
25 says "no benefit to go somewhere".