Clarity,
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London.
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United Kingdom
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I find the concept feminine side and masculine side approach wrong. ... It comes from a society which shrunk women's feet in order to make them more atractive to men. It is old fashioned and completely outdated to use such metaphors in order to find guidance for inner processes, for men and women, on equal footing.
I wonder whether it is time for me to accept a new take on 44. I read contributions by women on this forum, advocating a positive interpretation of this hexagram and I am asking myself what this means for me as a bloke. I feel quite relieved recognising that I don't need to do anything when asking what I should do in order to meet with her since she would come to meet me when ready. All I need to do is to keep myself independent and in this way two independent spirits can meet freely and inspire each other. This means that I have to work on my independence which increases the chance to meet her. However, sounds easier said than done but is still good!
I wonder whether it is time for me to accept a new take on 44. I read contributions by women on this forum, advocating a positive interpretation of this hexagram and I am asking myself what this means for me as a bloke. I feel quite relieved recognising that I don't need to do anything when asking what I should do in order to meet with her since she would come to meet me when ready. All I need to do is to keep myself independent and in this way two independent spirits can meet freely and inspire each other. This means that I have to work on my independence which increases the chance to meet her. However, sounds easier said than done but is still good!
I wonder whether it is time for me to accept a new take on 44. I read contributions by women on this forum, advocating a positive interpretation of this hexagram and I am asking myself what this means for me as a bloke. I feel quite relieved recognising that I don't need to do anything when asking what I should do in order to meet with her since she would come to meet me when ready. All I need to do is to keep myself independent and in this way two independent spirits can meet freely and inspire each other. This means that I have to work on my independence which increases the chance to meet her. However, sounds easier said than done but is still good!
Like the majority of people, you are missing the entire point of the hexagram because you are overreacting to the use of the woman as a metaphor.
What part of 勿用取女 is so hard to understand?
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).