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So Hex 32 is the field that you are both running around together in at the moment. This meeting and all around it is tugging away at old thoughts, feelings and behaviours. Remember you are both in this together and so the reason behind them not coming or not contacting you is immaterial - its more about how you both act next.I’m in the midst of a career change and thinking of working in partnership with another creative type person. They said they’d meet me tonight but never showed and never let me know they weren’t coming. I know they’ve a personal issue absorbing their thoughts at the moment.
Why didn’t they meet me tonight 38.1.3.6>32
Looks like they may have been caught up with the personal issue Lines 1 and 3 but we’ll sort out things eventually to. Meet Line 6.
so the reason behind them not coming or not contacting you is immaterial -
Hi TrojinaIt isn't immaterial if this person is a prospective business partner. Reliability does matter then. Actually it always matters.
The no showing, either physically or verbally, is to my way of seeing things the important factor at the root of the reading. The question was about 'why they did not meet?' not on the goodness of this person as a prospective business partner."Remember you are both in this together and so the reason behind them not coming or not contacting you is immaterial - its more about how you both act next."
Didn’t say just contacted me and asked if we could talk....I didn’t push it, it’s where go from here that matters but I won’t be accepting the behaviour a second time - not my issues but also not acceptable. I’m giving them the benefit of the doubt.What was his excuse for not showing up ?
How to get some of my needs met in this situation
Hex 36.2>11
Not 100% on this but I'm reading it as just let them have their way for now and they will heal through my understanding of how things need to be for now.
Not 100% on this but I'm reading it as just let them have their way for now and they will heal through my understanding of how things need to be for now.
We got into a good place and sorted out what's what but they still seem to be hesitant in allowing me to have some things my way which I can work around but then it ends up being ALL about them and their ideas - I understand their past dramas is what is causing them to be this way
I didn’t push it, it’s where go from here that matters
Hi BecalmHow to get some of my needs met in this situation
Hex 36.2>11
Not 100% on this but I'm reading it as just let them have their way for now and they will heal through my understanding of how things need to be for now.
........I didn’t push it, it’s where go from here that matters but I won’t be accepting the behaviour a second time - not my issues but also not acceptable. I’m giving them the benefit of the doubt.
Not really, where you go from here depends on where you start from and you've started from him standing you up with no explanation.
Whether or not we allow a situation to become a fresh start is dependent on the weight we assign to events that have gone before. If the baggage of what has happened to us yesterday, or the baggage of what happened to us last time we spoke out about our truth, or the baggage of our past fears and hurts is so heavy or so firmly attached that we cannot put it down, then we miss the opportunity for a fresh start, for a new beginning. The baggage of the previous events weighs us down too much to move or to change. It can become the starting point of all that follows, however it doesn't have to be so.
Your comment that her starting point right now is not her starting point but is actually some point in the past, does not really honour her or consider her needs.
In life, every day even, we have millions of chances to start afresh. Every morning we wake up; every time we start to open our mouths to say something; everytime we are faced with a fear or a hurt we are standing at a new beginning. I've always turned right now I'd like to turn left, kind of thing
I don't know about you but I have enough trouble carrying my own baggage around without having some extras, that aren't mine, foisted upon me.
Hi Becalm
The question is very cleary directed towards gaining an insight into how you get some of your needs met and not about how your actions will impact on the other persons healing.
The field you are walking through in this reading is a field in which there will be calls on you to flower and prosper in ways that are working towards restoring the balance. You can bring your world to life through recognising your own needs (11). Right now, getting your needs met is a skill that you have not practiced enough: it sits in the shade and only comes out in times occasionally. Practicing the skill needs to be done carefully - maybe, you feel safer when you sit yourself secondary to others needs - and with caution so that you remain protected(36). To get some of your needs met you might like to consider ways to rise above the hurts that are hobbling you. If you have difficulty walking find a horse to ride; travel differently, think, do, act differently. Focus on the strengths you have and direct your thinking towards how you can use them to bring some balance back into your world. (36.2)
Not really, where you go from here depends on where you start from and you've started from him standing you up with no explanation.
Here, I'll say two things: first, with your statement above, and with a few other things you've said, I get the sense that you are hesitant about this whole venture, which might be part of the 'wound' I mentioned and also might be a good reason to stop and contemplate a bit about what you want from this.I'm comfortable with not knowing and giving them the benefit of the doubt BUT that doesn't mean I will forget it happened it just means I don't want to create any negativity in my own psyche/heart about it.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).