Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
I felt the same, that there is some dishonesty, maybe that they were talking the whole time. Maybe something else. Some of my friends said that it's possible that his mother may have not liked me much and used his female friend that she is Also friends with to get us broken since I blindly trusted her and told her all. Or that she was jealous of me. Or that our break up was a coincidence with me talking to her. She called me from time to time, telling negative stuff about him. I assume in an attempt to turn me off about him? And control me to forget him. Yes. He has all the power and it's painful to get to this, from him telling me he cannot believe he has a chance with me. And that he doesn't know what he did to deserve me. When it comes to me I am traumatized and I still cry and can' sleep at night. Still in a lot of pain. I felt he was my pair, the one I will settle down with.There are two things that strike me about your story. The first is that I don't think the man and friend have told you everything that you should know, something feels dishonest about this. Secondly, you are describing a one-sided relationship where he has all the power. I would not counsel anyone to pursue such a thing. All of your questions are about him, him, Him. Try to focus some questions on You. What is best for You to do about this/him.
He only has it because you gave it to him.Yes. He has all the power and it's painful to get to this.
When a guy says "he was not sure", and "He was acting hot and cold", "he became very distant", he said "he can't be with anyone", then he wanted to try but "then changed his mind in days"...
...then how, after these facts, you can say "the one I will settle down with"?
What if I contact him? 18.2.3 > 23
He will pretend that the fault is yours. If you're strict he might try to correct himself.
And in the end you'll break up again.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).