Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
I will try to be succinct. I am in midst of awful breakup with relapsed drug addict. He was sober at beginning. I had to end things b.c I was enabling. I also found out he had betrayed me. And I have been betrayed before, he knew this, and did it anyway, I have been very raw. We have had many angry back and forths for a few weeks, but I am in therapy, and decided to stop attacking back. I was just as awful as him until recently. But tonight - found love note from person he betrayed me with. I did stupid thing. I texted phote of note, said: thanks for further vindication. Not my business anymore, I hope you are well. Long story short, he attacked, I did not attack back. I said I forgave him, I do not hate you. He then threatened suicide. I called 911 (who could do nothing b.c I do not have his address, but they did contact him), and his friend, who called him. I stayed calm, I was kind, I was terrified. The only thing that makes me not hate myself for sending stupid text is I never attacked back. he said things like: You dont know how to have relationships. you should have put out more. and more.
Then, he said: I am going to end it. After I processed this, after his friend called him, and he texted me apologizing for being so dramatic, I decided to consult iching. My question was: How did I do? B.c I feel so very bad. 23 unchanging. All I can hope is that it is saying all I could have done is been benevolent. I think I was. And that it is telling me I can do no more, and it is just over. I wanted to help. I should have just stayed away, but I guess I hope his letting out his despair may help him, especially if his friend nows know how troubled he is. Not sure if that is answer I got. Thanks for your help, not so succinct, sorry. I am ashamed
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).