Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
I am so upset about this, I can't even decipher the hexes.
Long story short, I am going through a nasty divorce with my cheating husband. I bad noticed my son and daughter have become withdrawn; more so at school and when having to visit their father. Their teacher brought to my attention just how bad my son has turned inward on himself. I am devastated that he is so miserable. We had just moved several hundred miles from all that we knew to "be a family" for him to just walk out four months later. There are too many extreme changes in these children's lives and they are severely affected. I had asked my estranged husband to come to school meeting and he said no. I came to find out he blew his child off to go on a trip with his girlfriend. He asked me what we were doing in two weekends from now. I asked why. He wants to take the kids that weekend over to where he lives with her.
I do not think that my children should be exposed to this tramp and add to their confusion and upset. i would certainly not bring any men around my children, especially while I am still married. I asked the Yi, "Will I be able to keep his girlfriend away from my kids until the divorce is finalized?"
please. I need your help with this reading!
I am so upset about this, I can't even decipher the hexes.
I asked the Yi, "Will I be able to keep his girlfriend away from my kids until the divorce is finalized?"
please. I need your help with this reading!
I do not think that my children should be exposed to this tramp and add to their confusion and upset. i would certainly not bring any men around my children, especially while I am still married. I asked the Yi, "Will I be able to keep his girlfriend away from my kids until the divorce is finalized?"
HI wind,
I experienced something very similar to your situation. Please, please do not get caught up the vortex of the wrongs and rights nor bad mouth your husband or his gf in any way.
How you handle the situation is how your children handle it. The best you can do for your children is focus on them and your healing from this, not what your husband is doing or has done - it is not going to help you or your children.
If you want to ask questions ask something like - How will it benefit me to allow the children to spend time with my husband and his gf
How will it benefit me to discourage the contact
You cannot control what is going on and no matter how hard you try or what you want the kids will make up their own mind and allowing them to be exposed to what is going on in your husbands life, although you don't want to allow it, helps them with their own process of growing and healing from this.
- Liss
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).