possible romantic prospect!

[alev]

Hello Everyone!
Well, I asked the i ching for some guidance about a guy that may be interested in me and wanted some insight on what may happen between. He is someone that I had had a fling with in the past but now we are in contact again through work and I am feeling something of a different energy between us now. So I asked:

What are his true feelings for me?
The response was 24.3.5 changing to 63
i felt that the lines were positive here and suggested sincerity but i dont know what to make of the resulting hex. my impression of 63 was always that it ment things were over and done with?

I also asked (couldn't resist ) Is he going to pursue me?
the result being 26.2.3 changing to 27
i read 26.2 as a no but 26.3 seems to suggest yes to me as does 27

can anyone help me figure this out?

 

[dobro p]

What are his true feelings for me?
The response was 24.3.5 changing to 63
i felt that the lines were positive here and suggested sincerity but i dont know what to make of the resulting hex. my impression of 63 was always that it ment things were over and done with?

63 talks about things being in their proper place for the time being. So the Yi seems to be saying that his feelings for you 'get back to where they should be, and everything's in its proper place'.

 

[dobro p]

I also asked (couldn't resist ) Is he going to pursue me?
the result being 26.2.3 changing to 27
i read 26.2 as a no but 26.3 seems to suggest yes to me as does 27

This suggests two things:

* First, his feelings for you are strong.

* Second, that he will restrain his feelings for you for some reason and therefore things will seem to fall apart at the micro level. But at the macro level, this restraint he exercises will somehow strengthen and nourish either him, or you, or the relationship.

Overall, I'd say the Yi isn't giving too much away in these two consultations. I'd say you're just going to have to either wait and see, or get in there and get your feet wet and find out the answers to these questions on your own. As soon as you start to act though, the Yi will give you much more useful information in answer to your queries. See, the Yi loves people who live life and consult the oracle more than people who just consult the oracle.

 

[willowfox]

What are his true feelings for me? 24.3.5 changing to 63

The lines suggest that he would like to get it on with you once again, there is a strong fire burning in him and he would like another try.

Is he going to pursue me?, 26.2.3 changing to 27

It certainly appears that he will as he is hungry and needs to satisfy his needs.

 

[alev]

Thank you both for your insight!
I'm glad my intuition seems to be right on here, I definately have felt something happening between us, but as dobro said I will just have to see what developes. Things are definately still in the beginning stages. There is a work banquet this week that we will both be attending and I cant help but think this may be a good time to show him i am receptive to seeing him again too. The only potential issue is that he is very conservative and professional when it comes to work and seeing as this is technically a corporate event he may act indifferent to me. So before I saw the above answers, last night I asked the Iching:
How is he going to act towards me at the banquet?
the answer was 61.2.3 turning to 37

I took this as a very positive sign and think he is going to be sincere and "natural" with me at the event and not "professional and indifferent"