Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
marijke said:Basically what's going on is that i feel there's quite intens tensions going on between us for about 1,5 years. Everytime i'm around i sense he's aware of me, and i'm ofcourse very aware of him. He's looking at me and whenever possible trying to approach me, flirting with me. Sometimes he does and says quite weird stuff, just to have something to say or do. Everybody around notices his behaviour, also people i hadn't talked to about it. He also tries to make contact with my friends, the last time he even hung around my group of friends all night...
But everytime his self created boundries are crossed he's getting nervous and backs off. It's because i come too close, either because it's becoming too obvious for the outer world, or that things are becoming too obvious between us. A few monts ago, when i asked what it was that was going on between us he also nervously denied anything was going on between us, becoming even a bit rude. I would say if a guy approaches me saying he likes me and it's not likewise i wouldn't have become rude. It was as if he indeed had to defend himself.
I would realy appreciate other peoples views since it feels so complicated and i don't know what attitude is best and actions need to be taken. Think hexagram 16 is indeed suggesting a go between.
Thanks so much!!
marijke said:Hi Willowfox,
I agree with your point of view. Try to be relaxed and open to him. But keep my head straight and for sure will not throw myself at him again. I will have someone who will tell him that i am genuine about my feelings (although i told him i still question if he beliefs i am being real about it) Genuine feelings are not what he has been looking for from you up until now for him and that it's slightly hurting and a bit weird if he still flirts without having real feelings for me back. I don't think i'm able to make that clear to him myself and hex 16 is also suggests that. Nowhere does 16 suggest that. On the contrary, as what you quoted indicates, 16 is blazing, and shouts, "look at me"
I am not approaching him, but let him come to me when i do see him. Despite this, he is even more persistant in
paying attention all night. Means nothing. Who else is he paying attention to?.
lightangel said:Guys have a simpler mind than we would like to think they have, if he says nothing is going on, he means that. If he doesn't approach you more openly is because he doesn't want to, not because he has some sort of tortured soul.
lightangel said:Guys have a simpler mind than we would like to think they have, .
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).