Relationship? 55.2>34, 6

[bamagirl]

Hi. I have looked in the archives and need to ask for you guys to help. I met this man and have a great time together. He seems to like me as well as I like him, however I met him through an ex-boyfriend who is getting married in December. This man is concerned our friend, the ex, will be upset/mad as he is in the wedding party. He said last we talked about it that maybe it would be better if we waited until after the wedding. He has now stopped all communication. I guess because we had such a connection I am now wondering if anything will come of it or I should just forget it.
So I asked,
How does he feel about me? 55.2 to 34
What will be the outcome of our relationship? 6

Any thoughts would be great and very much appreciated. Thank you in advance.

 

[pocossin]

55.2 suggests that your boyfriend has encountered a boundary he is unwilling to cross. Hilary's I Ching says:

Feng is screened off.
At midday, seeing the Dipper.
Going on gains doubts and anxieties.
With truth and confidence coming to expression,
Good fortune.

Wedding are times of commitment. He likes you a lot but isn't yet ready to commit as your mutual friend has done, and that is why the approaching marriage has caused him to withdraw. Hexagram 6 is inauspicious for the relationship to restart immediately after the wedding, but he may have second thoughts in the future.

 

[bamagirl]

Hi Pocossin. Thank you so much for your reply. I am just now getting back on line. I checked it, but thought I hadn't had a response.
I have an update for you which gives me chills as a read your response and as I write my reply to you. I am continuously shocked at the I Chings amazing abilities.
Your evaluation of my situation was spot on. We met last Wednesday and he HAS reached a boundry he refuses to cross. He wants to put everything on hold until after the wedding. His exact words to me were, "Lets just let the boy get married first!". He is very loyal to his friend and doesn't feel comfortable going forward until he is married. I respect his decision and think his loyality is honorable, however possibly a little more than his friend would do for him was the shoe on the other foot. I am sad however. I like him alot. The connection was instant and I felt like there was great potential. I wasn't aware that we were cutting ALL communication but I have sent two emails which have had no reply. I was worried that he had given the whole idea up. After reading your post, I now have some hope that maybe in the future he might revisit our situation. The wedding is Dec 31st. Do you suggest I inquire more about this? I would be very interested in knowing if he would indeed have second thoughts, how long that might be and if his thoughts are favorable. LOL. But at this stage are those appropriate questions? That can be answered?
Again, Thank you so very much for your response. I am in awe.

 

[bamagirl]

LOL. Well I was reading the other posts and clicked on the one that said "Your personal I Ching Reading" ...

It said mine was 43.4.5 >> 11

What do you think?