Relationship and Trust 60.1.4.5

[ariel13]

Hello,
Hoping you all can help me out with a reading. I recently met a guy. I like him, but he is very unusual. He is foreign (from Russia), so I'm kind of giving him the benefit of the doubt for certain quirks bc I think it is just cultural difference. But he is SO unusual, which makes me a little uneasy. But it's strange like I feel super comfortable with him (just like I can really be myself with no pretenses), but I'm just trying to make sense of some of his behavior.


I asked the iching, "Please tell me about how trustworthy x is." I received the lines 60.1.4.5

That sounds kind of bad like maybe I should trust him in a limited capacity?

What do you all think?

Thanks for your help!
Jen :bows:

 

[ariel13]

Anyone? I also just did a new reading asking if we are a good match and got 51.5.

It sounds like this could be an unstable relationship or something? Or intense? It feels intense so far. There is definitely a lot of chemistry. But he also seems really irritable, but funny (if that makes sense). He is a double cancer for anyone familiar with astrology. I always see cancer men as a curmudgeonly old man vibe, and I think it is exacerbated by his Russian-ness. But I feel like his bark is worse than his bite, and he mostly just makes me laugh. I think the cancer part gives him a soft heart. Like most of the cancer men I know are gruff but actually old softies. I'm not sure if I am projecting that onto him though.

What do you guys think?

 

[diamanda]

Hi ariel13,

"Please tell me about how trustworthy x is."
60.1.4.5 > 40

I don't see any red flags of him being untrustworthy in this answer.
However, the fact that he's not a liar does not make it all ok.
Lines 60.4 and 60.5 sound like advice to you, to not expect too much, and limit your 'sweetness' with him.
40/relief is a promising result.
The hidden lines say you've been feeling very oppressed recently, so he's a good way out of that.

a new reading asking if we are a good match
51.5 > 17

Sexually yes, otherwise this answer is quite unstable.
Then again it depends what one is after, and intensity/instability are welcome sometimes.

 

[ariel13]

Thanks for your reply Diamanda!

I think you are most likely right. Of course it is yet to be seen whether he can be fully trusted, but we have spent quite a lot of time together over the last week, and he seems fine. Also, my cat really likes him, which seems like a good sign. She loves people but usually hates my boyfriends.

Also, yeah I think probably we are not a great match bc we are just so different. But yeah the chemistry is definitely there. It's kind of weird though. I think he actually likes me.

He is a lot more attentive than anyone I have dated in a while, which is interesting. I'm not sure where things will go but suppose I will keep seeing him since he seems nice, and we are having fun so far. I've done a lot of online dating in recent years, and I have had my fair of situations where a guy that seemed to be a good match just "ghosted" me for now reason and disappeared or blew me off. So it's kind of refreshing just to date someone who genuinely wants to talk to you on a regular bases, like he actually checks in every other day or so just to say hi.

Anyway, yeah I have definitely been feeling very oppressed lately like somethings gotta give... have felt like I've been beating my head against a wall with dating. I've literally been out with 6 or 7 guys over the course of just the last month and just no connections, no 2nd dates, nothing. It's very frustrating. Also, have been feeling like I really need to get out of the city, so yeah maybe he is a good outlet right now.

But I'm still wondering if maybe he could be someone I could grow closer to... I mean I know lots of couples that seem like a really odd match but somehow make it work and are really happy. And I am trying to be more open minded bc whatever I have been doing is obviously not working.

Anyway, I asked another question, "Will x become my boyfriend" and got 11.1.2.3. It seems like kind of a nice answer like maybe there is a receptiveness there, but I will be peaceful about the outcome regardless?

Would love to know what you think!

Jen :bows: