relationship ended or restarted?

[hopex]

I missed someone whom I was meant to meet but could not a
few weeks ago. I left a message which he was cross about. I called
him this morning to see why he was cross - he explained but went
onto be negative, so I listened but defended myself. I spoke my truth
- not usual for me. It ended unhappily with us both saying ok thats it

I asked Yi what will be the fate of this situation/relationship after
this conversation
23.1.5.6 > 3

I am guessing it is saying that the old wont work and if there is anything
od true merit it will be born in another from (line 6) and new growth 3

A ggod air clear was necessary I feel - as though I fight my corner in work
I tend to shut up and put up in love - especially with this man.

It will be sad if thats it but he lays terms and conditions - I felt sorry for
him, maybe he is depressed he has upset some people and is angry at the
consequences but seemed to blame me (i wasnt there) (having enough on
my own plate as you know other posts)

I think he is mad I cant be available...there seemed to be something hidden
-also 23 is something rotten inside??

love to all spring sunshine here good day x:bows:

 

[meganj]

do not do anything
1- he was being a bit self destructive, you caught him in a bad mood, wait
5- he'll come around
6- there is still "a fruit which has not been eaten" things will be patched over with the people he is on not so good terms with.
Let him rise thru these struggles on his own and come to you.

 

[hopex]

Thank you meganj !

 

[meganj]

And jw. do u feel in ur heart its over?
either way if it does work out or not there will be a new beginning. but i think he'll come back. let us know what happens!

 

[elias]

I asked Yi what will be the fate of this situation/relationship after
this conversation 23.1.5.6 > 3

The big lesson of both 23 and 3 is wait through the changes. Fretting, plotting, replaying what's been said and done will not change what has been said and done, nor will it shape what is yet to come in any useful way. As hard as it is -- let him go his own way. These things take a while to work through, but if there is to be a reconciliation, it will happen in its own time.

In Taoism "fate" is a matter of what may happen, not what must happen. "Fate" happens best to those who try to shape it the least.

That being said -- it's hard to put a happy face on 23 "splitting apart." A note of optimism in line 5: Change is possible, but do not try to lead or direct this change. The difficult question is whether the "leader" is another person or your own better nature. This is a time for acting through non-action. Line 6: A turning point, as the bad times exhaust themselves. Wise ones preserve the kernal of wisdom; fools throw it away. Take care that you learn from the present situation and apply that learning in the future.