relationship with ex..

[meganj]

what do i need to know about this situation?
53.2.5>18

 

[meganj]

ugh

 

[dragona]

it is possible to mend, ms Beautiful Flower

 

[meganj]

whaaat are u sure? with the way things went last night it doesnt feel so!
thanks dragona, but i am unable to see this because of what happened between us even though the lines r positive.

 

[dragona]

Well, I don`t know the background to this situation and I am not the wisest divinator here...but
What do you need to know about that situation?
Perhaps the two of you were out at the dinner and then something happened, or did not happened as you wished for so you are in the position of one who is halted in your endeavours but it could be worked upon or at least you are in the position of the one who wants to... well, maybe not right away...
perhaps try to sleep on it

 

[dragona]

Sorry if it looks as if I was thrivialising....but I think you get the picture.

 

[meganj]

ok so heres the deal..
last night he freaked out on me n pretty much told me to leav so i packed my things n left. we argued on the phone and im starting to think maybe he told me to leave becuz he was feeling guilty for the ahem.... sex we had :S the next day we also napped together n cuddled then later on that day he flipped out, i dont know why he approached me especially after last week. things started to get bad between us.. getting on each others nerves and sadness mixed in with anger, but theres nothing we could about it at the time becuz im still in school i cant just up and leav.
soo before we left back to our hometimes for the easter holiday i told him i dont want anymore problems between us so i will just leav him to his things and him to mine.
Then when i returned he approached me, and of course still very much loving him accepted this.. anyways we both very much want a new start. i know i want to be with him still, and him well hes unsure! so im confused he cuddles me and stuff then pushes me away freaking out. last night he said he doesnt want things back the way they were, and i dont either.. so i just dont know.????

so i came up with a Follow up question..
will we get back together after a period of seperation? 8.2>29
im moving back home for the summer so we can have our space. i wouldve liked to stay in the city but i am having financial problems. so im gonna save up n move here in the fall for school.
so take a gander n let me know what u think peoples!!
thanks
xoxo meg

 

[dragona]

Weird...shouldn`t you ask what are the reasons for that uneven behaviour? Better first ask him, of course, then the oracle...
Looks like you need to unite but under the same flag, sort of speak...I like what LiSe says about this line:
6 at 2: The origin of standing by is inside. Determination auspicious.
If you want to function well in your group, then be a real member, in your heart. Just doing all the right things is not enough, if you are not really committed the others will know. Accept them the way they are, even if they are weird, be proud of your group, even if it is a motley crew. All your actions will testify what you feel, so make your feelings great

 

[meganj]

oh wwooow typos :S

yeah its a very weird situation. i backed off again yesterday, saying the pushing n pulling is ridiculous, im staying away itd be stupid to considering were still living together for one more week. we had alot of talks over the past few weeks.. i dont wanna bring up the issue and he doesnt seem to want to either, this breakup is really draining.. it seems we are both exhausted ans saving our energy at the moment.
he didnt fully explain but he said it was like how we were before... idk how maybe just in general for him but the love we shared was all nice.. i didnt expect all our problems to be solved but it gave me hope, like he wants to fight for this too. but then he backed away and so maybe he doesnt. i told him i still love him and i hope, but hes like i dont know :S
maybe ill ask the yi if i should ask for closure before i leave.. or just leave it and dont force anything.
by the way i like that one by liSe too although its the first time ive read it.. i kinda like it lol
anyways great suggestions, great quote. I think i got this.
Thank you Dragona have a wonderful day lady!!

 

[dragona]

:bows: