Restraining Order 57.2.3.6>8 ?

[steve]

Hey

I decided just to get to the point and asked the yi should I put the restraining order on him

I think line 3 is urging me to make a firm decision line 2 is confusing in this matter. I am wondering if line 6 preventing him from getting to me or does this mean he could make things difficult for me. Its important I guess whether I tell him he is super close to me going to the police or I actually go.

8 in general for me is good and get quite a nice feeling with this hex and it tends to mean things work out so I am thinking with 3 lines 8 must be an influence.

Please help
Steve

 

[Trojina]

This is just 'make a decision', not making your mind up makes you weak...you lose your axe, your capacity to act in 57.6. 57.3 shows you repeatedly going over and over this.

Time to act...what harm can it do anyway. If you go to the police they will make their decision won't they...whats to lose ?

Hex 8 asks you to choose where you belong. I wonder if what holds you back is an old affinity to his way of life or something.

Anyway...just get on with it. A threat is a concrete thing and the police should know about it incase he did do something to you...then at least they'd know where to look !


Its now futile to sit there and guess what hes going to do. Its clear what you have to do now. He doesn't have the right to impinge on your life this much...he had a chance, now hes gone too far.

 

[steve]

Ok thanks, I appreciate it

Steve

 

[steve]

while we are here do you know much about line 2 trojan that line always confuses me and how could it relate to this issue

 

[foxx777]

While you wait on Trojan, here are H57 lines from Emotional I Ching, with line 2 bolded. I think the correcting and revising history is interesting....I also think this commentary on lines 3 and 6 are poignant as well:

Line 1 -
"[In the beginning, Vacillation]. A sterner approach brings success." [Persuasions from all sides]
Line 2 -
"[The basis(foundations) of current social influences]. Using historians and mediums, the cloudy is made favourable. No harm in this." [Correcting the official history of the past.]
Line 3 -
"Pressing influences, regret." [At this stage passive influence is required,like the well, not active influencing.]
Line 4 -
"Remorse disappears. The hunt catches three prey." [Small gains]
Line 5 -
"Favourable but testing times, remorse disappears. Not devoid of success and yet not completing anything. Before [benefits received] three days. After [benefits received] three days. Favourable." [Gradual progress - maturing]
Line 6 -
"[The foundations of current social influences]. One loses one's position of power. Testing times. Unfortunate." [Things are dispersed.]

 

[Trojina]

while we are here do you know much about line 2 trojan that line always confuses me and how could it relate to this issue

This line reminds me of kids looking under the bed for monsters...its like seeking out all hidden aspects of a situation...like we do in divinations, consulting fortune tellers and so on. I think it just shows what you are currently doing.....trying to understand by hidden means...like Yi etc etc

My personal feeling is I can't focus too much on it in this reading...when several lines move I tend to see the broader sentence the 2 hexes make


To be honest I think the reading shows you have really thought about this enough...

I mean its totally your decision now.

 

[steve]

I know, i need to do something

 

[butterfly spider]

I don't know if this is helpful - it may be but I got this casting for a question about removing a lodger - And his bed ---- so it has the same feel to it as this thread with similarities. I will post on the outcome especially as it concerns property here

 

[eowyndernhelme]

Hello, Steve, long time no hear

I just got this reading for a similar issue about removing someone from my home. It seems I can either give proper notice, or get a protection order.

How did your issue turn out?

 

[steve]

Hi, that was about old business partner, total nightmare, you are best to seperate as soon as you can and you will be happier. I never actually had to get a restraining order but it was not far off. I just stopped answering his calls and eventually he faded away into the past. Are you living with the person or are they are tenant?

 

[eowyndernhelme]

I am currently living with him. He is a family member. It makes it very difficult because I care about him much and he is fragile. How odd that you should respond at this moment because I took some steps just this afternoon that cannot be... hmm, police just came by. Apparently neighbors thought I was being attacked because of the yelling not attacked, but glad they stopped by. I had two or three hours of sleep last night, so this is on my phone on the fly, forgive grammatical errors. Anyway, I finally took the nuclear option this morning and called APS. I will get to do that test that the former prez took, is this a camel or an elephant, and if camel, is it bactrian or dromedary? Ha, sorry, little scattered right now. Um, bfn.

 

[steve]

I am currently living with him. He is a family member. It makes it very difficult because I care about him much and he is fragile. How odd that you should respond at this moment because I took some steps just this afternoon that cannot be... hmm, police just came by. Apparently neighbors thought I was being attacked because of the yelling not attacked, but glad they stopped by. I had two or three hours of sleep last night, so this is on my phone on the fly, forgive grammatical errors. Anyway, I finally took the nuclear option this morning and called APS. I will get to do that test that the former prez took, is this a camel or an elephant, and if camel, is it bactrian or dromedary? Ha, sorry, little scattered right now. Um, bfn.

Exactly, in my situation if I had been living with him, it would have been a hexagram 2.6 scenario, dragons in the meadows fighting. Thats why I asked if you were living together.

You need to be careful in being emotional in the situation as it can be seen as weakness for somebody trying to get what they want. Like if he knows you care, then he may feel in the safe zone. Its interesting that you and I had these experiences with the same reading. Hexagram 8, has always been confusing to me as well, its " seeking" union, not always both parties want the union. Unlike Hexagram 13 where people may come together for a common goal.

Ask Yi, what are my next steps? As I believe you have clarity on your first question. Your confused thinking will disappear once you have distance. I was the same with the business partner. I could not think straight and sometimes thats what people like him want. In my case, the guy was very uneducated of which he hid. I mean that he could barely spell his own name. I think that caused him to try and control people like me se he could do things he was incapable of doing. In your case, it could be that, he is trying to control the situation but in the wrong way so as to keep a roof over his head.

 

[steve]

Exactly, in my situation if I had been living with him, it would have been a hexagram 2.6 scenario, dragons in the meadows fighting. Thats why I asked if you were living together.

You need to be careful in being emotional in the situation as it can be seen as weakness for somebody trying to get what they want. Like if he knows you care, then he may feel in the safe zone. Its interesting that you and I had these experiences with the same reading. Hexagram 8, has always been confusing to me as well, its " seeking" union, not always both parties want the union. Unlike Hexagram 13 where people may come together for a common goal.

Ask Yi, what are my next steps? As I believe you have clarity on your first question. Your confused thinking will disappear once you have distance. I was the same with the business partner. I could not think straight and sometimes thats what people like him want. In my case, the guy was very uneducated of which he hid. I mean that he could barely spell his own name. I think that caused him to try and control people like me se he could do things he was incapable of doing. In your case, it could be that, he is trying to control the situation but in the wrong way so as to keep a roof over his head.

Sorry I mean 2.6 not 1.6 I have edited the mistake. (Thank you Rosada)