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I'm starting to work on my holiday cards, thinking about sending him one or not... So I asked "what is the one memory of me that I need to leave behind me with him?"
And the Yi replied 52.5>53.... I take it as, yeah, you can send the card, but just keep it neutral.
Lilly, I think you meant 53.2.
Ahead of that, you talk to yourself all the time (thoughts): why is this, i should, he should.. i wished.. how unfair, why not etc.. usually it is the ego bugging your self with all those questions. Mountain points to meditation and to stilling the ego which constantly wants something. Your ego besets you but also your friend.
53.5 to me is the reflection of what you feel and not what he is feeling. You feel lonely and unable to get connected. 53.5 is connected to line 2 which is inside the lower Trigram Mountain, coming to peace somehow. And again it is the Mountain which points to stilling your ego´s desires. Noone ever comes to peace by wanting/needing emotionally something from somebody else.
(x55.2x typo) 53.2 you can open-heartedly share your friends beeing as it is.
It is said of the wild goose that it calls to its comrades whenever it finds food; this is the symbol of peace and concord in good fortune. A man does not want to keep his good luck for himself only, but is ready to share it with others.
Oh good, nice to not be the only one!I was just pointing out Lilly's typo. I too don't know how she connected 53.5 to 53.2 )
i would like to answer in full length but have to go to work soon.
My ego would like to give the perfect!! answer so you do understand and like me. The expression Ego has a bad connotation. No one wants one but we all have one. (There is only one person i know, who def. has none. That is Eckhardt Tolle. There might be some more but i did not come across them yet.)
My ego produces and at the same time likes to avoid suffering and so i start manipulating either myself or the other by f. e. writing reserved emails , beeing extra nice, beeing extra brilliant, blaming, ..there are hundreds of ways to manipulate and usually we are not even aware of how far we (me def. included ) go.
You might like to hear a story by him which makes sense to you. Something like: i am gay or i am not ready for a close relationship yet or i have some deep psyschological problems or you do not look the way i prefer or or or ..... once you know this 'true' story you resp. your ego tries to adapt. You will start manipulating. You will try hard to get the house back!
As Katie Byron (thework.com) says (and i fully agree): there is no authentic story. The only authentic story there is, is, he does not reply the way you think you need it.
Ah so that's how you connected 53.5 to 53.2, but does Wilhelm explain how or why they relate? I'm still trying to figure out (among a lot of other things!) the meaning of the line positions themselves (1 to 6); I'm getting a better sense of individual triagrams that make up a hex, but haven't yet refined that point.For 53: let (lonely) time work for you, it will work for you. In II Book by Wilhelm it is said 53.5 refers to line 53.2. I have the feeling this is the case here. You will get connected again.
keep up faith , lilly
I really like the way you write..
Are all possible manners to respond then manipulative?
Nope, all I want is his love. Whether it makes sense or not. Whether he likes me or not. Whether he believes me or not. I am not a grown up and thus not accountable for my choices and actions. I don´t accept his choice and reject the gutless wonder manner in which he implemented it. I am sure I "want the house back" at this point as it would take a heck of a short..
all I want is an explanation... without a word for months
My ego says "I ain't askin' again!".
But, the thing is, you MUST ask again. Repetition will overcome the obstacle. Stick to your guns.
Yeah, but both me and my ego would feel like dog poop if I still never got even the flimsiest of answers... There's the rub... Can't force someone to respond.
As Lilly would put it, the only real story is that I may well have to digest that question mark (or let the wind - hurricane!- at some point blow it away from above my head).
Just give me his number and I'll call him !
The message I thought was keep it light and neutral. Real communication, to me, has a lot more substance....We'll see.I just love 52.5, it's a great auspice for communicating with someone...
Totally unrelatedly, but linked to my silly shopping question -- Dog and I ended up in a store - without asking the Yi's blessing . Got the darn tablet -- definitely a want more than an absolute need. Decent deal. Wallet is a lot lighter, but contrary to when that happens because of the taxman, I got me a Christmas and Bday present YAY!
Normally, no, though he will try to walk into stores. He likes people . A lot, and folks take to him. He has a blast when school lets out; a dozen + kids look for him. Today, the store was not the destination....it just happened to cross our path on the way back. Worry not, he had funyou take your dog shopping ? Doesn't he get bored ? Might I humbly suggest you update the shopping thread with this tale of you and the dog.
I just have this image of the dog holding carrier bags, looking through merchandise...like that dog on Family Guy
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
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United Kingdom
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