The potential for partnership

[rsrose]

I will say when casting this hexagram I felt slightly nervous to know what would appear. Actually hoping it would not be hexagram 44 . I've experienced this in regards to women I was intimate with and whenever I've felt apprehension regarding a human that I'm involved with romantically I've asked what is important for me to know regarding x and have received hexagram 44. In every case it has turned out these people were struggling with there own darkness set on mastery or control. So when I've gotten this In regards to a women I know I need to run and never look back . Anyway , this involves a man who I recently started being intimate with but first came the promise of being in a new business venture . I do know this man is a womanizer... N without a doubt likes sex. (But who doesn't). Regardless, I do know the guy has a good heart. I came to him recently bc I've been looking for a job. He offered me one 3 years prior but was not ready. The job its self is a lucrative one. Almost sounding to good to be true. I recently, came back to see if there is a possibility the position is still available. Regardless of this , I feel I've already started this writing setting up a negative tone for the whole thing . So please though try to read what I say without judgement . Bc I yearn to not think negatively but I also don't want to deceive myself by believing in anyone's illusion . Anyway I asked " please tell me what is important to know regarding the potential business partnership of X and I ?"
I received hexagram 44 .2.3.4.5 changing to 23.

I'm trying to understand the meaning the this . Please help.

Thanks!

 

[mirian]

Sorry, I think you know already that the whole situation is unreliable either for romance, sex, or business. It is what 44.2.3.4.5 >> 23 is saying, you are not being judgemental. I think this reading is a non-starter for any new venture, unless you are a gambler and want to step in and see what it is like

 

[Tohpol]

I yearn to not think negatively but I also don't want to deceive myself by believing in anyone's illusion.

" please tell me what is important to know regarding the potential business partnership of X and I ?"


44.2.3.4.5 >23.

I second Mirian's interpretation on this.

H.44 is about an encounter that can certainly be tempting and seductive but ultimately best avoided by letting things come to fruition without all the fuss. Otherwise, you might have a world of emotional chaos on your hands. That's the important message the Yi might be offering you here.

I think there's a big difference in being negative about something for no reason and actually being able to evaluate a situation objectively without wishful thinking, or exactly as you say - not being deceived by someone else or more importantly - yourself. That's not negative - that's a welcome survival technique. Admittedly, this propensity can be experienced as negativity or cynicism in other aspects of our life which is where you probably "yearn" to be free of it. This is perhaps a personality trait which can be balanced with due attention. But this perspicacity about emotional danger can help us avoid a lot of chaos.

I think the Yi is just affirming what you intuit already. He may have a good heart but that isn't necessarily enough if hasn't got his **** together. This will influence the whole ball game I'm afraid - business to bed-time. But this is the reading now, who knows what the future will be?

Similarly, it's not necessarily wrong to engage with 44's lessons but just be aware of what you are inviting into your life - the man/woman archetype of dark power is marvellous for stripping away our illusions and those behavioural patterns about which we are unaware.

But I think you're pretty aware of what all this entails.

Good luck!

 

[Tim K]

I think Yi warns about the shady aspect of this business.

Fishes in a wallet not good for guests (public, buyers sellers?)
Wallet with fish and then empty (you can lose money).
No skin on his thighs - again about losing money?
And then advice to hide yourself or there is something that you don't know.

This temptation(44) will lead to destruction/loss(23).

Steer clear from it.

 

[altair139]

Lol I've never received this reading in all the love readings I was asked to read (because this is like, theoretically the worst possible cast for a relationship.)

 

[ginnie]

I"m looking at the yang change pattern of 28, and the yin change pattern of 27. The 28 suggests a situation that is overburdened and stressed-out. The 27 suggests that there can be a way of satisfying your need for an income that is more moderate and well-balanced.

I am not one of those who think hexagram 44 is a bad or unfortunate hexagram. Under ordinary circumstances it often just means "going to meet," and has to do with encounters between two people. A strong woman is mentioned and she is sometimes said to be a queen or other important person. I do see, however, how some of the moving lines are unfortunate. But that is true of most of the hexagrams, is it not? What is probably true of hexagram 44 is that someone will move us or influence us, but whether that is always humiliating or unfortunate is something I certainly wouldn't say.

 

[rsrose]

Lol I've never received this reading in all the love readings I was asked to read (because this is like, theoretically the worst possible cast for a relationship.)



Yes a very telling one. It has always been what my gut intuits as well. And confirms this.

 

[rsrose]

" please tell me what is important to know regarding the potential business partnership of X and I ?"


44.2.3.4.5 >23.

I second Mirian's interpretation on this.

H.44 is about an encounter that can certainly be tempting and seductive but ultimately best avoided by letting things come to fruition without all the fuss. Otherwise, you might have a world of emotional chaos on your hands. That's the important message the Yi might be offering you here.

I think there's a big difference in being negative about something for no reason and actually being able to evaluate a situation objectively without wishful thinking, or exactly as you say - not being deceived by someone else or more importantly - yourself. That's not negative - that's a welcome survival technique. Admittedly, this propensity can be experienced as negativity or cynicism in other aspects of our life which is where you probably "yearn" to be free of it. This is perhaps a personality trait which can be balanced with due attention. But this perspicacity about emotional danger can help us avoid a lot of chaos.

I think the Yi is just affirming what you intuit already. He may have a good heart but that isn't necessarily enough if hasn't got his **** together. This will influence the whole ball game I'm afraid - business to bed-time. But this is the reading now, who knows what the future will be?

Similarly, it's not necessarily wrong to engage with 44's lessons but just be aware of what you are inviting into your life - the man/woman archetype of dark power is marvellous for stripping away our illusions and those behavioural patterns about which we are unaware.

But I think you're pretty aware of what all this entails.

Good luck!

You say " by letting things come to fruition without all the fuss" What do you mean by this? To wait and see what happens without trying to push for it? I have been definitely trying to push for the signing of the papers to happen. But I will now back away. It feels like a relief to do such without a doubt! I love what you say about it is not necessarily wrong to engage with 44's lessons. When I have done this in the past it has surely made me be reborn in places that needed birth.

Thank you so much Topal for your time! I can not thank everyone in this community enough.

 

[rsrose]

I think Yi warns about the shady aspect of this business.

Fishes in a wallet not good for guests (public, buyers sellers?)
Wallet with fish and then empty (you can lose money).
No skin on his thighs - again about losing money?
And then advice to hide yourself or there is something that you don't know.

This temptation(44) will lead to destruction/loss(23).

Steer clear from it.

Fascinating... yes and definitely "There is something that I do not know" --- this is very true. Thank you ashteroid ! You are the best!

 

[rsrose]

Sorry, I think you know already that the whole situation is unreliable either for romance, sex, or business. It is what 44.2.3.4.5 >> 23 is saying, you are not being judgemental. I think this reading is a non-starter for any new venture, unless you are a gambler and want to step in and see what it is like

It is very fascinating you use the term "gambler". Because honestly, I am. And I have even had to clear up some fraudulent things on my background that related to this term- which he needed me to clear up to move forward. Thank you Mirian for your insight! It makes me think, indeed. You couldn't be more spot on.

 

[rsrose]

I"m looking at the yang change pattern of 28, and the yin change pattern of 27. The 28 suggests a situation that is overburdened and stressed-out. The 27 suggests that there can be a way of satisfying your need for an income that is more moderate and well-balanced.

I am not one of those who think hexagram 44 is a bad or unfortunate hexagram. Under ordinary circumstances it often just means "going to meet," and has to do with encounters between two people. A strong woman is mentioned and she is sometimes said to be a queen or other important person. I do see, however, how some of the moving lines are unfortunate. But that is true of most of the hexagrams, is it not? What is probably true of hexagram 44 is that someone will move us or influence us, but whether that is always humiliating or unfortunate is something I certainly wouldn't say.

Fascinating to hear ginnie. A relief to hear as well. I will keep this in mind. and I will let you know what the future entails.