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I've read traditions of the "unchanging" hexagram in the archives here that say there is no change with a judgement casting -- and then rebuttals that say this isn't true. I wonder if there is a definitive source indicating one way or the other, or if there are particular factors involved?
I've had the feeling there is a revolution going on here,, that something is quite different, and my message was potentially upsetting this time which might trigger a more volatile response anyway. In fact, what I said was atypical, pointed, and required a different answer than the norm. Which is why I cast for this question.
For me 49 unchanging has signified something needed to end and completely re begin again on a different footing.
I've had this several times re relatonships, not romantic I might add, and looking back the relationship seemed to 'die' so that it seemed completely finished then after a while it began again...but we saw each other differently after the mini 'death'
49 is shedding of a skin thats outgrown and itchy. The moulting needs to happen so the new coat can come...while the new coat is coming it may appear that nothing is happening or the situation has 'died'. I think the existing form of something does die in 49 and I don't think one has alot of choice about it...an old coat is an old coat and can't be stuck back on
Death is a revolution, a transformation from one state to another so with 49 unchanging I might expect the situation as we currently know it to die and perhaps be reborn as another animal altogether
ahh...
i reread your original question...what can i expect to hear?....
Answer: Change. Still somehow also feel it is meant for you, too.
Modest Learner.
"How can my experience of this revolution be both
fortunate AND upsetting?Hexagram 1.2.5.6 becoming 55
Because upsetting things aren't always unfortunate . Thats nothing to do with Yi its my answer to your question
Well, I thought about that, exactly what you are saying, that I could be fortunate and unfortunate; happy and sad, at the same time? I can't think of any examples, can you?
Was just reading LiSe on Hexagram 45.4.6 and thinking maybe I've taken the text too literally. What LiSe describes for line 4 isn't just "auspicous" or "fortunate" but more about the process of putting your heads together to accomplish something, the best of each to establish an ideal, which of course is "fortunate". Line 6 she doesn't describe in the way I thought it was meant either -- just weeping and wailing over something sad. Rather, she says, If you want to be heard, then make yourself be heard. If you want to accomplish something together, then ask, explain, suggest, inspire - anything which makes them know your intentions or needs. Come out with it! Sounds like a good idea.
Reading that, I'm not feeling so intimidated as I did. Maybe the news is good or at least something I can get my head around.
I keep losing my messages on here tonight -- which is driving me mad. But I'll quickly try to reconstruct what I just wrote. That is, i'm not sure where this should be posted as I'm kind of working two threads at once just now -- something I've never done -- but they are so closely allied.
In view of the fact that some feel my situation isn't entirely over yet, although it is somewhat better clarified, and that I may face a response from the other party later on, I've asked the Yi what reaction there will be to the message I've sent and received this reply:
Hexagram 41.1.2.4.5.6 becoming Hexagram 45 [again]. There's a lot of hex 45 out there these days! I'm intrigued that the hex 41.3 line is missing as the situation it describes: three people in a situation and one getting up and leaving -- apparently isn't part of this scenario. I'm not sure that it is actually; i'm not sure what his others relationships/friendship with women mean to him either. The other lines would appear to say that decrease results in increase? In any case, I appear to be protected here and to have taken the right path. Other views are certainly welcome, especially from those who were thinking there is another shoe to drop here.
If 41 represents further "sacrifice" in the situation, or any more sadness, I can't imagine they are from me. I'm at a good position with this now.
Hi Ab you asked me to comment here...but I literally can't. I cannot understand my own answers about others reactions so thats why I don't usually ask....its a variation of 'whats in his mind' question and you know how I feel about those..don't you ? should do I repeated it often enough .but its not just how I feel, the answers to those questions actually don't say anything to me. I really don't know what this says about his reaction....to me its a blank...I cannot venture into what is in his mind ...
If you wanted to know if it was certainly over or if he'd approach I personally would ask for a straight prediction rather than try to suss out his reaction
Besides if you spend time thinking about his reaction you are actually going back to losing strength in this IMO. You may wonder about it...but as I have a zillion times before who here can say with any certainty what is in his mind....and if they did I wouldn't believe them...so I think its an area of private speculation/questioning for you....I don't feel i can help with this question
Clarity,
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