Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
The ”before question”was : “ for what reason did he came in my life ?” ( and I explain here because I am not sure if my translation to English is right that I mean why did we met and related in such a way. In other words what was the purpose of that meeting) I hope that my question was stated right.“Also I want to tell you about the article you read recently. I thing that I am in the phase of “addictive questioning” and this article “found me” in the right time.!!!!!
The first thought came into my mind was “What a coincidence!!!! Or is this a coincidence????”
I realized that what I was walking in the wrong path and now is the time to slow down, see my maps use my compass and find my way.
Thank you laylab for this.
Maria
p.s
you might see I new post from me. There is a question I asked before reading the article and one after. Hope that this will be the last for a while. I plan to be more active in listening than asking.”
In general 32 has to do with steadiness. Things which run too fast tend to go way up and then down or side to side. Think of riding a bicycle, going from point A to B. If the bike swerves this way and then that way, it takes you longer to arrive and point B, plus you wear yourself out for no reason. Also, if you coast, you then have to pedal hard to go forward. A steady pace is most efficient.
What you want is a steady and smooth course and pace, something you can rely on.
Hi Maria,
This could be taken at least two different ways. If your question was being answered directly, he came to you to marry you (32 also infers marriage), or at least to find a lasting relationship with you. But with the Yijing, one must consider if it gives an answer directly to our question, or if it speaks to the condition we’re in when we ask the question. In the latter, it would be saying not to burn yourself out, to compose yourself, to endure, and to steady your heart.
Which of these do you think it’s saying? Of course there’s always the possibility that it is saying both.
as you saidit would be saying not to burn yourself out, to compose yourself, to endure, and to steady your heart.
As someone already mentioned this hex has to do with the successful duration of a marriage but his does not apply to you because you are not married or even in a relationship with this guy, therefore the only thing that is enduring is your separation from this guy.
Actually, marriage is still implied. However, what is wed are the principles of husband and wife within oneself. That is what endures and doesn't change direction.
Just uploaded this this morning. http://www.yijing.nl/candid/hexagrams/32.htm
Your language is fine, Maria.
What do you think the Yi is suggesting to steady?
bruce,
what you say here is that "marriage" here is not actually the family status of one ?
Is marriage here about the connection of two people no matter what the family status is ?
maria
...... creating an enduring union.
I'm not going to pass judgment regarding this other relationship, because I don't know enough about it. But I do know that steadying your equilibrium helps you to stand firmly on your principles.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).