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I just asked a relationship question whether what I must do to make my husband be faithful to me? I got Hex 52 and changing line 3. What does it actually mean?
52.3, 9 3rd, Zhi Gua 23: Bo, Decomposing (Fan Yao 23.3: curtailing itself is not a mistake)
Setting those restrictions Divided at one’s waist Rigors choke the heart
52.3x Setting those restrictions:
Crises choke the heart He divides his being between high and low and will not touch the inferior parts. As a matter of having a course to our lives, we need to find and set limits, curtail and train our natures to keep ourselves out of trouble. But to violate these natures, to be stiff and rigid instead of just still, to pile on foreign and alien virtues and deny ourselves a more natural course is merely another form of perversion. We have turned against ourselves. This is as unwholesome as sin. A celibate gets himself bent out of shape in the loins, pinches a nerve, cavorts with the succubus in the early hours of dawn, and awakens to find his own clawmarks and blood on his breast. His own hands try to set his heart free. Denial of life is bad management, deeply unkind to oneself, not a path to wisdom. Resistance generates heat, resentment smolders in thwarted desire.
what I must do to make my husband be faithful to me?
to pile on foreign and alien virtues and deny ourselves a more natural course is merely another form of perversion. We have turned against ourselves.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).