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Andrea7

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I asked about, what i must to do with someone who was my partner and he leaves the relationship cause a discussion. im still in love, he said he is not in love anymore. I feel he is in his ego.
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Your reading resulted in the following hexagrams:
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Hexagram 37, People in the Home
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Key Questions
Where are the boundaries of the 'home' you inhabit?
How are you building inner and outer relationships into a home?
What kinds of growth does this environment support?
Oracle
'People in the home.
A woman's constancy is fruitful.'
The old Chinese character for 'home' shows a pig under a roof. A home is where people rear a pig together, sharing wealth, work and value. People in the home cooperate in their shared space and invest in it together (as in a family, workplace, school of thought or culture), and within the structure it provides they can recognize and understand what is valuable.
To create a successful home, you need to have the constancy of a woman. Steadily, over time, your work creates a space in which all can grow freely into their natural form, and find their place and their connections with others. You allow space for new things to enter and grow, becoming part of the whole inner ecosystem. You keep the space for living in.
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'Wind comes forth originally from fire: People in the Home.
A noble one's words have substance and her actions are consistent.'
Sequence
People in the Home follows from Hexagram 36, Brightness Hidden:
'Injury on the outside naturally means turning back towards the home, and so People in the Home follows.'
Pair
People in the Home forms a pair with Hexagram 38, Opposing:
Opposing means outside. People in the Home means inside.'

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'No direction to pursue,
Stay in the centre and cook.
Constancy, good fortune.'
Hexagram 9, Small Taming
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Key Questions
What small thing can I work on today?
How can I cultivate a better terrain?
Oracle
'Small taming, creating success.
Dense clouds without rain
Come from my Western altars.'
To 'tame' is to restrain and also to accumulate and nurture: it's what the farmer does. Here, the mall farmer cultivates the soil of his own small plot, hoping the offerings made at the Western altars will bring rain.
The Zhou people, like the clouds, came from the West. Before they were ready to receive he Mandate of Heaven and bring about change, they prepared for many decades, cultivating heir society like earth. So a time of Small Taming brings great hope for future growth and success – it's just that, at present, there is no rain, only clouds, and all they have brought so far is gloom. This means 'small restraint', the experience of small, frustrating setbacks and things that don't quite work yet. However, this also brings advice to cultivate the situation and yourself in small ways, developing your readiness and fitness just as a small farmer works the soil. You can't make things grow in a single gesture, and so you need self-restraint: you have to work steadily, responding conscientiously to the realities here at ground level, caring for the small details.
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'Wind moves above heaven: Small Taming.
A noble one cultivates the natural pattern of character.'
Sequence
Small Taming follows from Hexagram 8, Seeking Union:
Seeking union naturally has occasion to tame things, and so Small Taming follows.'
Pair
Small Taming forms a pair with Hexagram 10, Treading:
'Small Taming is solitary; Treading does not come to rest.'
 
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Stredwick

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Your question was ‘what must I do with X?’ And the reading suggests that your situation has gone from a strong stable family relationship to one where you need to be cautious, have perseverance and not be guided by your whims.All you can do is wait and influence with friendly persuasion. Actions can only be gentle and flexible and not forceful. Nothing will be achieved with force. I hope this helps you answer your question
 

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I know you don't want to hear anything negative but I think 37.2 is saying in this case there really is nothing you can do. 9 also advises recognizing that for now you must go forward alone. Perhaps you can take this as reassurance not to blame yourself.
 

Andrea7

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Your question was ‘what must I do with X?’ And the reading suggests that your situation has gone from a strong stable family relationship to one where you need to be cautious, have perseverance and not be guided by your whims.All you can do is wait and influence with friendly persuasion. Actions can only be gentle and flexible and not forceful. Nothing will be achieved with force. I hope this helps you answer your question
Thanks 🙏🏻
 

marybluesky

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Hello;

the line directly says "no direction to pursue". You don't need to do anything. Live your own life and there is good fortune.
 

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