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I would take this as a very positive response. Please update us.Hi everybody
It's been a long time!
I have been single for 3 years. I've needed a lot of time to heal from some ugly emotional wounds after my last relationship. For a long time I wasn't ready to open my heart again to love. There have been some romantic encounters but none of those men really caught my interest.
Then in July I met X through an online dating platform. I usually get bored really fast with online chatting (to superficial) and it rarely comes to a date because of this. With X it was different from the start, we had this lovely chemistry going on right from the beginning. Then we went on a date after a month of chatting with each other on a daily basis. When we met it was like fireworks, it's been a very long time since I felt such a strong mutual attraction with a man, and not just physical either. We agreed to see eachother again, but he asked me to wait for a month because he has a very busy schedule in September.
He works as a flooring contractor, plays sax in a band, practises martial arts and organises music festivals on a regular basis. It's all a bit daunting to me since I am at such a different stage in my life. I suddenly have lot's of time on my hands and have been looking for new activities and hobbies to connect with people. I just moved out from my dads house so my life has changed drastically. I've had a lot of personal goals that I fulfilled recently, which is great but right now I feel like I am at a treshold of my new life and I am still filling in the blancs. Despite the fact that we have very different lifes we do seem to complement each other somehow.
We keep chatting on a daily basis and he keeps reaching out to me reassuring me he really wants to pick up where we left of after our first date. I have been sceptic on my part, having some trust issues after dissapointments in past lovelife. Despite my distrust I decided to give him (and myself )a fair chance but it's been difficult. I really don't know what to think of this. All I know is that I am experiencing real feelings again, after a very long time of feeling completely numb in matters of the heart.
Perhaps I am going a bit over board with my question here: What is the relationship potential between me and X?
But I just want to get a feel af what could be possible, if it resonates with the intensity of my feelings.
I got hex 61.2.5 to 27
Seems like a wonderful answer. Trust and nourishment, truth and confidence as a bond. Keep doing what we are doing.
Any other insight would be much, much welcomed.
Sorry for the long rant, I guess it feels good to get it all out like this <3
Sorry to hear this. To me 61.2.5 is very positive so it’s another example of Yi indications being untrustworthy. Unless something changes......Update
Turns out he was just a player. I am working through a rollercoaster of bad feelings, but also relieved because now I know I can move on from these emotionally very unsettling, uncertain past weeks.
Ah well, this too shall pass...
I guess my problem (and likely the same with many others) is that when I ask the Yi a question, I’m asking about the future, as I’m already aware of what I’m feeling, and of what the situation is. In this case, it never made it past the talking stage, which kind of negates 61.2.5 if this guy is just a player. 8.3, in which “there is no real association with the other” would have been a more accurate response from the Yi to her. Unless she’s misjudged him, and he’s not just a player.....Aw shucks. As to whether these positive indications resulting in lousy outcomes mean the Yi is untrustworthy, I see this more as an example of how the I Ching is able to give us a snapshot of how things are at the moment the question is asked, but also a warning to beware that we not assume a good hexagram means more than it does. In this case the question was, What is the potential? 61.2.5>27: Heart felt > Conversation. Sounds wonderful but..it never made it beyond the talking stage. Sigh...
Let me know what response you get.Yeah, why is it that when there is a much more fitting line we get one that is vague? Gonna ask IC about that...
I got hex 61.2.5 to 27
Seems like a wonderful answer. Trust and nourishment, truth and confidence as a bond. Keep doing what we are doing.
Any other insight would be much, much welcomed.
Sorry for the long rant, I guess it feels good to get it all out like this <3
erhaps I am going a bit over board with my question here: What is the relationship potential between me and X?
But I just want to get a feel af what could be possible, if it resonates with the intensity of my feelings.
I also get the sense from the cast of hungers that are too open, wide open and this must apply to you too. Seems to me the impulse to connect with him was genuine, good, not regrettable but you possibly needed a little more clarity on how far your own hungers might take you. I mean the change patterns of 29/30 show there's a lot to learn here, there's danger, a rocky ride but also clarity through that.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).