What is X's goal with me? hexagram 57>18 Relationship.

[IrSoria]

Hello everyone.
I know, my mind has been wandering and wondering a lot about this new relationship that I started about a month ago.
From the first time I saw him, there was something strange between the two of them that until now I haven't been able to explain.
He is extremely serious and reserved, he has told me that he likes me physically and that he feels good with me.
But I doubt, and I doubt more every time he asked the teacher about the path of the relationship, because he always answers me with hexagrams that scare me.
I have several questions, I hope you can help me in this tangle that I myself create.
1. What is X's goal with me? 53 > 18
Gradual progress mutating to work on the spoiled.
53 is the development of the relationship, gradual growth
The mutations.
What I see
2. Eat and drink happily.
That's what we've been doing the times we've seen each other (only on weekends due to his work).
Here I feel a safe and comfortable situation, harmonious coexistence.
5. The goose inched towards the summit.
For three years the woman does not conceive a child.
Finally nothing can stop it.
You get the fulfillment of your desire.
In my opinion, progress is being made towards an objective, but the comment says 3 years the woman does not have a child. There will be obstacles for three years, there will be no fruits of this relationship, will it get stuck?
And then mutate to 18 at work on what I mess up.
This mutation worries me a bit.
Is this relationship going to lead me to heal incorrect patterns?
Uniting these two.
Progress in the relationship healing our issues with our parents?

Now my next question is?
What does X feel for me?
Hexagram 2 unchangeable.
Do you feel receptive? submission? Medium?
I read similar questions with answers with hexagram 2, and some commented dead relationship.
Or he feels that I am someone who can drive him, he let me guide.
That confuses me even more.

Last question.
X wants to hurt me?
Hexagram 23> 1. >27
Do you want to dismember me, and then eat me?
All the comments on the shared readings blog are about something dangerous that I should be aware of.
This is scaring me.
Because it contrasts with the attitude that x has towards me.

Please...
Can you support me in guiding me through this combo of questions.
I wouldn't want to err and put myself in danger just because I like this man too much.

 

[rosada]

His goal is to gradually get to know you better with the intention that in this way you will be able to heal any difficulties that come up. He may want to take things slow perhaps because of difficulties with previous relationships. On the other hand, if the opposite seems more true - if he seems to want to move to intimacy too quickly - then these hexagrams maybe saying he has a problem with gradual progress, with building a true relationship that is deeper than superficial physical contact.

He is open to getting to know you better. He wants to be responsive to your intentions so don’t be shy about letting him know who you are and your goals. Possibly this line is indicating he is looking for you to be open without him being equally confiding.

If you are already sensing this relationship will end with you being mistreated you should trust your instincts and end it.

 

[marybluesky]

Hello IrSoria,

I don't think the casts indicate danger. Not in the way you imagine at least.

His goal: 53>18 indicates gradually repairing a decay. 53.2 is about passing good moments and 53.5 talks about something that takes time, a long time, with a good result. Sounds like something rotten in his life that he is going to repair through your relationship.

His feelings: 2uc. There are many ways to interpret this cast. The most prominent one for me is being simply a woman. He needs a woman, you are one.

Does he want to hurt you? 23.1>27. He wants to get rid of a hunger. 23.1 talks about bed and legs. Sex? Maybe he is obsessed with your legs?

You don't need to be afraid, just don't do what is not comfortable.

 

[IrSoria]

Hello IrSoria,

I don't think the casts indicate danger. Not in the way you imagine at least.

His goal: 53>18 indicates gradually repairing a decay. 53.2 is about passing good moments and 53.5 talks about something that takes time, a long time, with a good result. Sounds like something rotten in his life that he is going to repair through your relationship.

His feelings: 2uc. There are many ways to interpret this cast. The most prominent one for me is being simply a woman. He needs a woman, you are one.

Does he want to hurt you? 23.1>27. He wants to get rid of a hunger. 23.1 talks about bed and legs. Sex? Maybe he is obsessed with your legs?

You don't need to be afraid, just don't do what is not comfortable.

His goal is to gradually get to know you better with the intention that in this way you will be able to heal any difficulties that come up. He may want to take things slow perhaps because of difficulties with previous relationships. On the other hand, if the opposite seems more true - if he seems to want to move to intimacy too quickly - then these hexagrams maybe saying he has a problem with gradual progress, with building a true relationship that is deeper than superficial physical contact.

He is open to getting to know you better. He wants to be responsive to your intentions so don’t be shy about letting him know who you are and your goals. Possibly this line is indicating he is looking for you to be open without him being equally confiding.

If you are already sensing this relationship will end with you being mistreated you should trust your instincts and end it.

Thank you very much for answering.
Right now I find myself without perspective on this topic, a little confused.
The relationship has been lost in the limbo of solitary confinement.
I think that I ignore the signals that my being tells me when I am relating incorrectly with men.
And this time was not the exception

His goal is to gradually get to know you better with the intention that in this way you will be able to heal any difficulties that come up. He may want to take things slow perhaps because of difficulties with previous relationships. On the other hand, if the opposite seems more true - if he seems to want to move to intimacy too quickly - then these hexagrams maybe saying he has a problem with gradual progress, with building a true relationship that is deeper than superficial physical contact.

He is open to getting to know you better. He wants to be responsive to your intentions so don’t be shy about letting him know who you are and your goals. Possibly this line is indicating he is looking for you to be open without him being equally confiding.

If you are already sensing this relationship will end with you being mistreated you should trust your instincts and end it.

Thank you very much for answering.
Right now I find myself without perspective on this topic, a little confused.
The relationship has been lost in the limbo of solitary confinement.
I think that I ignore the signals that my being tells me when I am relating incorrectly with men.
And this time was not the exception

 

[IrSoria]

Hello IrSoria,

I don't think the casts indicate danger. Not in the way you imagine at least.

His goal: 53>18 indicates gradually repairing a decay. 53.2 is about passing good moments and 53.5 talks about something that takes time, a long time, with a good result. Sounds like something rotten in his life that he is going to repair through your relationship.

His feelings: 2uc. There are many ways to interpret this cast. The most prominent one for me is being simply a woman. He needs a woman, you are one.

Does he want to hurt you? 23.1>27. He wants to get rid of a hunger. 23.1 talks about bed and legs. Sex? Maybe he is obsessed with your legs?

You don't need to be afraid, just don't do what is not comfortable.

Thank you @marybluesky
There was truth in your comment.
He wanted sex and he got it and now he's ghosted me.
A little rough but true.
Now I must understand why this happens to me.

 

[marybluesky]

Now I must understand why this happens to me.

Don't take it personally. And if all he wanted was a woman to keep his home I'd say you are lucky to have escaped this. Just a thing: if he comes back DON'T ACCEPT HIM. NOWAY.

 

[IrSoria]

To be honest, I don't think he will have communication with me again.
He's been a little too distant.
Of course I will not accept it in any way.
Thank you so much.