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and dealt Would you reject someone who tells you who wants you who believes that you are their other half and need affection? also I think i might be good for her since I might care for her since her mother doesnt care much about her her mother rather prefer to complain that she isnt in a relationship with her boyfriend anymore and that her daughter is the culprit54.2 It's not clear (perhaps because you don't know her too well) so.. 54.6 Give it time. 21. There are very real issues here that need to be acknowledged and dealt with. I find your statement, "if she says she wants me I can't reject her" disturbing.
The majority of people experienced trauma in childhood, it's so common.both have the same traumatic experience in their childhood
lol well I cant be more specific but I mean i think you are rightThe majority of people experienced trauma in childhood, it's so common.
This doesn't give the right to anyone to behave needy or badly to others in adulthood.
Not a good idea to become her 'mother'.
I agree with you I mean I feel iching is telling me this is going no where because she kept telling excuses and then seeem to want to delay a meeting between us.. and yes continueing with her is like doing something without real purpose, I am astosnished how accurate this is.show me an image of what should I do? 54.2.6 > 21
54.2 Even if you can't fully know what's happening, you've got a fair idea (you said her actions show she prefers others, and she lies to you, so, that's enough info).
54.6 This 'marriage' is empty, fake, not real.
21 be ruthless and split from her, cut her off.
I can totally understand you feel very hurt.
However, what matters more than anything is actions.
Despite of how you feel, you know she's wrong for you, cut her off.
This is true but Topher has readily admitted he likes being in co dependent relationships. The problem isn't really with this woman, it's with Topher.The majority of people experienced trauma in childhood, it's so common.
This doesn't give the right to anyone to behave needy or badly to others in adulthood.
Not a good idea to become her 'mother'.
@becalm he did say that he's attracted to codependency, but it doesn't sound like he likes it - as he's writing so many complaints about the situation (and rightly so). I get the impression that Topher realises that this is harmful to him (Topher correct me if I got this wrong).
My point being....If you're codependent, you'll always be complaining about a situation with another in a relationship. Right or not. Until you change YOUR behaviour it's got absolutely nothing to do with the other person.
Yes that's what I mean - stop being an unpaid servant and they'll be no reason to complain.@becalm
How is it wrong to complain for being an unpaid servant?
The problem is not the complaining - the problem is being an unpaid servant.
If i dont get any recriprocal emotion to me, codependecy doesnt work, I need someone to express the same emotions I have otheriwise I dont want to love them unconditionally and my intuition tells me she isnt being honest when she tells me I love you, and I want you.@becalm
How is it wrong to complain for being an unpaid servant?
The problem is not the complaining - the problem is being an unpaid servant.
@Rosada these are interesting points you're making.I hate when people prioritizes friends over someone you supposedly love
She has told me the following:@Rosada, estos son puntos interesantes que estás haciendo.
@Topher, ¿dijo que te ama?
The problem with using a tablet is not the fact she uses a tablet but the description of it, the year she told me the Tablet was bought was 2007 by then no Android os would support this dating app and wouldn't have such a high resolution camera,my argument just pointed to the fallacy she was telling meYour original question was What should I do? And you received as 54.2.6 - 21.
54.2 Describes some sort of disappointment.
54.6 Describes something that is a sham, a false show leading to..
21. Biting through which is about biting through something to get to the truth.
So you are disappointed and feel her talk of liking and loving has all been a shallow hoax. Your main concern here seems to be that you feel she isn't being truthful with you so oracle seems to be suggesting that you tackle this problem, bite through the stories and get to what's real. What would happen if you were to simply ask her what's up with all the conflicting stories? And the heck with trying to communicate using a tablet - that's just asking for short one line comments and excuses.
Hello,
54.2: continue your way as a solitary man, 54.6: as there is nothing worthwhile. 21 indicates examining the reality & taking the proper action.
Your original question was What should I do? And you received as 54.2.6 - 21.
54.2 Describes some sort of disappointment.
54.6 Describes something that is a sham, a false show leading to..
21. Biting through which is about biting through something to get to the truth.
So you are disappointed and feel her talk of liking and loving has all been a shallow hoax. Your main concern here seems to be that you feel she isn't being truthful with you so oracle seems to be suggesting that you tackle this problem, bite through the stories and get to what's real. What would happen if you were to simply ask her what's up with all the conflicting stories? And the heck with trying to communicate using a tablet - that's just asking for short one line comments and excuses.
@Topher thanks for all the details.
She's definitely playing with you and fooling you.
I agree, actions speak louder than words.
I hope you manage to cut her off and escape this fraud.
well that is what the iching suggest. not me or so I think it could be but also could be what your interpretation said. and this has really no purpose because she doesnt have real intentions for a relationshipHow could you possibly 'treat' the problem?
You're not a psychologist or psychiatrist. Relationships are not meant for one person to become the therapist of the other. And they are not meant for one person to fool and lie to the other. She has fooled you and lied so far, what makes you think she'll do anything different in the future?
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
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+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).