What should I do for my love life? 21.2.3.4.6 to 11

[Monijh]

Here is my love life story, I've been in love twoice and both has been unrequited love recently I met someone with him I felt something mutual was happening but the situation is a bit difficult because I work for his business partner at a museum run by him and other partners.He sometimes shows some signs that I feel sure there is something but not all the time. I am very worried that this is something made up in my mind and I am putting myself in the same situation. So I asked Yi what should I do for my love life and this is the answer! And I have got 11 the Flow from the very first time I asked a question about this situation I can guess that 21 means I have to get thing right in my head but 11 is not easy to understand!

 

[diamanda]

What should I do for my love life?
21.2.3.4.6 > 11

The way you describe it, it's hard to tell who your question refers to. Because you asked in general about your love life, and yet this question seems to be about this particular guy. In any case, the scenario described by this cast is something like:

21.2 you being strict with someone (or maybe kissing someone)
21.3 but realise that the guy is poisoned and poisonous (i.e. no remedy there)
21.4 and yet you keep biting and struggling
21.6 and finally realise that this person just cannot change, no matter what.

The result is 11, which in this case means something like you finally realise that the situation is no-go. Also you realise that what you lost was not really that significant (lost a low-quality guy? no worries, plenty more around).

In conclusion, the particular guy you have in mind is not a good catch.
The answer also advises to be strict, a couple of times only, and then quickly get rid of any poisonous guy.

 

[steve]

Just to add 11 could be where you need be, balanced and at peace. This is what will happen if you follow the advice. The oracle is showing you how to get on the correct path.
It wont be easy but the result will be worth it.

Steve

 

[Lavalamp]

I would generally take 21 as saying you need better boundaries, to be more legalistic with your love interests. Don't date married men maybe? To quote D.F Hook "Something which should be, or has to be bitten through. This is essentially the legal hexagram. When asking about a man's intentions, he is probably married."

11 is where you want to be - but it's not your context, it's not where you are, it's where you want to be. To get there you have to be more 21.

- LL