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maybe it says let them come and go (24) . Listen to them (2) , embrace them(5) let them be without over-analyze them , point a finger on them( 6) . If you say "don't think of the pink elephant" the pink elephant won't go.
I see this cast as you can honour your feelings as genuine. It's not just a silly fantasy, you have real feelings but don't get too hooked up in the brokenness of it all (61.6) 61.6 seems to come up when there's just too much earnest outpouring...however much a cock crows he doesn't make the morning come. Your feelings are real and it looks to me like they must be at least in part returned with those lines...61.2.and 61.5 but you can't think that by doing something the feelings will stop. They are organic, a part of you...the cock can't stop the morning coming or make it come.
I don't think you can aim to push your feelings aside, honour them, they really are part of you. You can't do much about them other than stay close to your own truth, coming back to yourself (hex 24) Perhaps you need to acknowledge your feelings as valid and real as anything else about you. I think perhaps if you could try to take your feelings more seriously, less like an inconvenient headcold, there might be less internal friction.
Seems to me the feelings you have are real and lovely. The fact that nothing can happen with the person in question doesn't change that inner truth. So I say fully acknowledge the feelings as a good truthful part of yourself and let them breathe and keep them close to your centre rather than push them away as silly. It looks to me like a good genuine friendship but 61.2 is so often about love that cannot be openly shown...but it's still there.
aww, you always make me chuckle Trojan, at the exact point of nabbing the crux of the matter (in bold). You are right, but as I have written on here so many times before, it's just TOO DIFFICULT. I have a malfunctioning emotion chip, see (thank you for the story suggestion pocossin!) and it's all just way too distracting (how do humans get anything done!?) - I watched Best of Data (Star Trek) videos on YouTube last night to make myself feel better
This really is a nice friendship, or has the makings of being one maybe, but even friendship is a ship (heh, I have no idea what I did there) i.e. - it can't be just me who does all the adjusting. Anyway, I have been mulling over whether to have ' the conversation' so that this unspecified bunch of emotions that sort of festers in the background could maybe cleared up, but I wonder if 61.6 is maybe advising against that? Like, open talk and pronouncing things won't lead anywhere useful?
Also, I am grumpy that this is making me think about it so much. And how do you distinguish real feelings from fantasy feelings? I mean, I didn't even know you could have feelings that are more real than other ones - they all seem real to me, although perhaps some outcomes may be more feasible than others
Whatever, one ought not be held hostage by emotions engendered by others, that's just mean.
feelings are difficult but it's part of being human. 61.6 can often show when we are calling out to heaven cos it's all too difficult. This line is a little bit of a 'shush now !'
assume he is with someone else so he's off limits ? If not I guess it may be worth considering speaking to him
I don't know if it is obvious to others, but it seems to me that I am thinking Waaaaay too much about this guy and I cannot justify it in any way no do anything practical - and you are saying I shouldn't do anything practical, I should just suffer this relentless wash - and not a 29 in sight!
Oh most certainly it does, I just don't know what's the best way to deal with that. It's actually sort of weird, I have been paying particular attention lately, we've always been affectionate with one another and I always feel really comfortable with him, unusually so I would say as most of the time I baulk at being touched. But there are just so many hugs and he doesn't read the clues and pull away, he just hangs in there until I give in, so to speak, and this has been driving me insane, but it's one of those intangible things you cannot quite 'call' with authority, I mean I don't know why he does it, his hugs never feel sexual in any way, only I feel slightly, shall we say, inappropriately excited, afterwardsEh oui pauvre chat ennui !
I don't know what you can do about your feelings but if you mean he is flirting heavily perhaps some of your exasperation belongs with him not yourself.
another way to deal with unwanted feelings for someone you don't want to feel about might be to have a clear inner decision, an act of loyalty to one's own well being as in "this is not good for me, I reject it now"
that's very zen, thank you. It's easier said then done, of course
Blimey. Maybe you should have followed up by dragging him into the nearest bedroom, locking the door locking the windows and pouring on some more hot lava and roasted apples - that would have really given him something to think about...Sometimes blocked feelings need the right valve after all.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).