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It looks to me like a Retreat, a going away from, and a long term one at that.
(Line 6: retiring after the work is done.)
My sympathies if you wanted otherwise.
Dont be devastated,
Breathe.
When i focus on what someone else is doing i can sometimes get all worked up or distressed in some way.
(My mother's shocking behaviours for example)
when i focus on what i am doing i can find the right way/thing to be/do.
Please, is this a romantic relationship, financial, artistic, counseling?
Dont be ashamed to spill your guts because you have on other posts already.
And honesty is nothing to be ashamed of, in fact it is very admirable and courageous.
But if you'd rather not, i will respect that.
Will D return to me?
33.1.6 > 49
D finds you overwhelming and had withdrawn to protect his/her self. There are changes you have wished to make. Why not begin them now?
Decisive action, good.
I just wanted to add that the lines of trust and communication you built with D
can be built with someone else.
Good luck.
D finds you overwhelming and had withdrawn to protect his/her self.
Yes, that makes sense Pocossin. My letter to D. expresses that and I hope she will respond positively but getting 8 Union seems to me could go any which way and so I have to be prepared for that. I have had ect treatment in the past as well as all sorts of complicated mental health struggles.....and once before I had a very strong urge to rise above all this mire, and did for a while at any rate. It is now time to do so again. The will will find a way, or this time I am truly done for.
or are we talking simply about disengaging possibly temporarily?
I got 33.16> 49 RETREAT> RADICAL CHANGE
I would be very grateful for any interpretations on this.
Is there any ambiguity here, or lesser levels than absolute good bye....? Am I just kidding myself
in imagining there might still be scope for this connection?
Well if D is a therapist/psychiatrist in the NHS this cannot possibly happen ;
People in this role can't really withdraw just because someone overwhelms them. it is their paid job so the decisions made will be on a professional basis, an assessment of the needs of the paitient and resources available, not on how they feel.
Lines 1 and 6 move so the situation passes through quite quickly and also when 1 and 6 change I see the relating hexagram as kind of 'busting through' the first. It is that hexagram that generally materialises throough the window frame of the primary. So in a situation of withdrawal (33) a revolution, a change happens, whereby either the thing seemingly completely disappears and returns in another form (49).
This could mean you restart with the same person butin a wholly different set up or way OR you do the whole thing an entirely different way ie another approach.
I think what is confusing, that isn't explicit in these threads for Americans, is this is not a private therapist who can choose to withdraw or not. This is someone appointed within our national health system....they can't just wake up one day and say "well I am not going to see her because she overwhelms me'.
Also wisewoman you seem to take it as his or her choice but it won't be entirely their choice will it ?
Well no you're not 'done for'. You aren't going to die and it's not going to be the end of the world. Sounds like you have mightily transferred/attached to the person so naturally you will feel your life is hanging on it...but it isn't. I think it's quite a good reading 33.1.6>49 there's a big change there..so if it resumes it may be on a different footing.
I think it may be only disengaging temporarily....I see the 49 as the 'outcome' here...but it's not definite as it could be you finding a whole new way in another way. Either way when lines 1 and 6 move situations tend to work themselves out fairly rapidly. The whole situation is done in one go, one episode.
Line 33.2 is you with D in mind as wu fire (ideal candidate). However, behind D there is a female yin wood line. He is not available to you.
49.3 and 49.4 are child line that couples to the hidden 33.2 line. This means either children are involved or assets are involved with the other female.
Conclusion: Game over. Time to move on. It is time for a change, you cannot marry to D.
You will be wasting your youth in all this.
Long Yi this is a question about a psychiatrist/therapist in the National Health Service in the UK. In fact I have the idea the therapist is female.
You have assumed this is a man/woman romance ? Why ?
Have you read any of this thread ? It isn't about a marriage partner so this is not in any way applicable
well not unless ww is planning on marrying her psychiatrist
Read the thread.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).