Will he ask me to marry him?

[Kupaci]

Will he ask me to marry him?
I got hexagram 34 unchanging.
Any answer appreciated.

 

[Hans_K]

Hi Kupaci,
Could you perhaps give some background information. With just a question and the Yi's answer, it is difficult to help you interpret the answer.
Do you have a suspicion that he is going to ask you to marry him and if so why do you have that suspicion? Things like that

 

[marybluesky]

Hello;

To me 34uc indicates something positive regardless of yes/no answer;
for example in a thread the OP asked if she had an illness and got 34uc. Time proved that she was healthy (34= great vigour). The answer was no, she was in great shape.
Then you may ask about success in a job interview and 34 indicates that you have enough ability to be employed.

More details will be helpful. That said, in this situation 34 errs on the side of "yes" in my eyes.

 

[Kupaci]

Thank you for the replies.
About the suspicion I don't have any right now, but I'm hoping it will happen in the near future.
He said a lot of times he's going to ask to marry him in a year or sooner. But he promised other things which didn't happen so I'm still wondering.
Last night we were at a dinner with his friends and they were joking about him proposing and he said there's time for him, but not for me because I'm 27 .

 

[rosada]

I see 34 uc as indicating things will continue as they are.

 

[marybluesky]

he said there's time for him, but not for me because I'm 27 .

Oops... not a nice thing to say.

I don't know how old he is and where you live. In my city there are more single people below 40 than married. Or I meet more of them anyway.

Maybe it has been a mere joke. However to be honest I'd be wary of someone with this mentality of men being eternal bachelors and enjoying it while discarding women once they pass 25.

 

[my_key]

Last night we were at a dinner with his friends and they were joking about him proposing and he said there's time for him, but not for me because I'm 27 .

Hi Kupaci
Joking or not I see that comment as a hurtful thing to say to you and especially so in front of others. Has there been an apology offered or asked for?

34 advocates that the noble one does not step outside the rules of courtesy and that the Great Strength is used in beneficial ways to break through, either within self, or through directing others towards the correcting of behaviours that have reigned for many years.

Will he ask you to marry him? Perhaps Yi is indicating that you would be best suited to taking a long deep breath, gather your strength and really begin thinking about what you want to get from a marriage and the way that you would like to be treated in a marriage to this person.

..or there may be other interpretations that ring more clearly for you.

Good Luck

 

[Kupaci]

I got an apology and explanation. Supposedly it was a joke. Still it's a hurtful and disrespectful things to say.

There's a work to be done about the way how I want to be treated.

He tells me I'm part of his family and wants to marry me, but there's doubt within me about his intentions and my commitment.

 

[ontheroad]

I got an apology and explanation. Supposedly it was a joke. Still it's a hurtful and disrespectful things to

I Was Only Joking​

This is a common gaslighting phrase that narcissists use when you call them out over their insults. Rather than take responsibility, or apologise, they tell you that you misinterpreted their “joke”. Which effectively shifts blame onto you

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