Will I be dating my ex again

[Liolik]

I dated (exclusively) a great guy and we had really good relationship, it was only about 3 months. Lots of dates that went on for 10-14h.. no quarrels.. and then he ghosted me after I sent him happy birthday wishes (I was overseas at that time). Never heard anything back. I texted about a month later and no response. I can’t shake off the feeling for a while now that it’s not over for some reason. So I wanted to clear this and got 20.2 to 59.
what confuses me is 20.2 “A woman's constancy is fruitful.” But then dispersing in 59.
any thoughts?

 

[Senecatwo]

What I see in this reading is one of the oracle's funny little double or triple entendres.

So if I look at the woman of this line as your emotions, and the man of this line as your thoughts, I would say that it's not wrong for you to feel emotionally loyal to a person you felt you had a connection with. At the same time, the reasonable thinking here is to move on with your life and focus on the things you know are more important.

If I look at this line as you being the woman, and he being the man, I see that you are waiting for him like a sailor's wife while he is busying himself with God knows what, probably work or a similar duty.

You said you went away? People have no patience any more, and worse they are constantly bombarded by distractions and random stresses.

Seems like a natural moving apart owing to circumstances. Nothing wrong per se, no mention of blame.

Maybe you will come back together again in the future, maybe not. Doesn't seem wrong for you to feel this way according to the reading though, so maybe create a polarity by embodying the dutiful character of the line so as to naturally attract someone's loyal emotions!

 

[The Hermit]

Hex 20.2 to 59
"Contemplation through the crack of the door.
Furthering for the perseverance of a woman."

A naive person (20.2) watches another immature person act (20.1) stirring up deep emotional turmoil in her. After meditating, 20.2 will let go (disperse) and it will be beneficial to do so. It seems to be wise to go back and cherish what you already have.

 

[Liolik]

Hex 20.2 to 59
"Contemplation through the crack of the door.
Furthering for the perseverance of a woman."

A naive person (20.2) watches another immature person act (20.1) stirring up deep emotional turmoil in her. After meditating, 20.2 will let go (disperse) and it will be beneficial to do so. It seems to be wise to go back and cherish what you already have.

It was 100% ghosting