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"Hexagrams 19 and 20 respond to one another: Seeing watches for nearing to approach and reach out. They connect, and each completes the other. When you are Nearing, you become the help, guidance or opportunity waiting to be Seen."
"The upper trigram, SUN, gentle effects, is successfully influencing K'UN, receptivity. Without changing lines, the hexagram CONTEMPLATING indicates that there is work to be done in regard to the object of your enquiry. Seriously contemplate the situation and grasp it's true meaning and direction of development. Once you understand it, influence and change it wherever necessary. Fear not. If you've aligned yourself realistically to the situation, you will be trusted."
20 uc , just qucikly as i realise this is not the 20 thread, retrospectively has outlined actions i really needed to think about a bit longer before doing. Even though in casting 20 i did 'contemplate' my ans, still didnt look long or hard enough, so i now respond with extra patience when i get it.
Looking is far more dynamic than we might realise
Seeing (hex 20) watches for Nearing (hex 19) to approach and reach out. They connect, and each completes the other.
Anyway, today it occurred to me that maybe he was just nervous that night, and it wasn't that he didn't want to see me. I asked the Yi and got 20 unchanging. (We have communicated in the interim, but it's been a bit tense on both sides - certainly I know I have had all my defences up, rightly or wrongly. For me it's a case of not wanting to fall into something where I'll get hurt, if he still has feelings for his ex.)
I asked for further clarification and 36.2.3. I am not sure whether this means that there is more to the situation that meets the eye, but since I got 20 twice (once unchanging) in relation to the same issue it seems relevant. I guess in time there might be more to tell, or not, but overall I'm taking this to mean that any problems in this situation aren't really anything to do with me, but maybe things going on in his life that I'm unaware of.
Perhaps advice not to second-guess the situation but merely observe?
I don't honestly think him being unfriendly is due to a blockage in your psyche, it's showing more of what he feels right now.
I don't want to offer interpretation in these threads but I have a bit but maybe for more in depth help you could post in SR with the 21 cast ?
maybe its a very personal association but couldn't help but remember and connect it with some Jung's ideas. ... To look at in German language, according to Jung , means also “ to make it pregnant” He says :
“Looking, psychologically, brings about the activation of the object. It is as if something were emanating from one’s spiritual eye that evoke or activates the object of one’s vision.”
“ so, to look at or concentrate upon a thing, betrachen, gives the quality of being pregnant to the object. And if it is pregnant, then something is due to come of it; it is alive, it produces, it multiplies . That is the case with any fantasy image; one concentrates upon it, and then finds that one has great difficulty in keeping the thing quite. It gets restless, it shifts, something is added , or it multiplies itself; One fills it with living power, and it becomes pregnant”
One fills it with living power(wind) , and it becomes pregnant(earth) ..... maybe ?
just realize this post is 9 years old to the day, a date of special significance for me.Hex 20 appeared 2-3 times ( unchanging) when asking about a specific subject which, btw, has to do with looking at images.
maybe its a very personal association but couldn't help but remember and connect it with some Jung's ideas. ... To look at in German language, according to Jung , means also “ to make it pregnant” He says :
“Looking, psychologically, brings about the activation of the object. It is as if something were emanating from one’s spiritual eye that evoke or activates the object of one’s vision.”
“ so, to look at or concentrate upon a thing, betrachen, gives the quality of being pregnant to the object. And if it is pregnant, then something is due to come of it; it is alive, it produces, it multiplies . That is the case with any fantasy image; one concentrates upon it, and then finds that one has great difficulty in keeping the thing quite. It gets restless, it shifts, something is added , or it multiplies itself; One fills it with living power, and it becomes pregnant”
One fills it with living power(wind) , and it becomes pregnant(earth) ..... maybe ?
Clarity,
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PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
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