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You are just a tiny part of universe
59 - Nothing is fixed, panta rhei *
60 - Everything is an expression of the universal gauge
*Hold to universal values , the worldly ones are perishable
'Dispersing means spreading out: Measuring means stopping'
Dispersing has no limits that would stop it's flow - yet eventually this liberated energy will flow on into new, more organic forms.
The lower trigram of human affairs is held by K'AN, the mysterious. It is penetrated by SUN, gentle efforts, in the upper trigram of cosmic ideals. REUNITING without changing lines symbolises a consistent isolation from one's real origins. Because of this, the true nature of the object of your inquiry is not understood. You will be at odds until you penetrate this mystery. Look within for an answer; transcend your egotistical involvement, try to see the whole picture, look for the place where all things originate.
'Wind moves above the stream: Dispersing.
The ancient kings made offerings to the Highest to establish the temples.'
My favourite mental image for 59 is water evaporating from the defined place it was, like a puddle or stream, rising as mist to reform as water drops in clouds then later falling back as rain to be contained within the limits of the shape of some other puddle or stream somewhere else, some other time.
How have you found your own experiences of 59 uc ?
. So I asked I ching "what can I do to make him care more or be sad about our break up?" Yi's answer was so on point: 59 unchanging. My question was somehow neurotic and Yi answered with perfect common sense.
I took this answer as the only way he would respect me and care more is if forget all about him.
59 dispersion can look exactly like loss but often isn't exactly loss because what is dispersed does/can regather in a somewhat different shape. You broke up with him but you also want him to be sad about it ? This suggests you didn't want to break up at all you wanted for him to pursue the relationship so it doesn't seem as if you are being entirely honest with yourself about what you wanted ? Anyway, yes let it go and then if it reappears it will look like a different thing perhaps.
Well, this is a great perspective Trojina, thank you very much. Yes, my breaking up with him was more like giving up waiting for him to love me the way I wanted. He never took our relationship seriously. No matter how desperately I tried to move things around, it was in vain. I want him to pursue our relationship and come forward with solid plans, because I loved him and thought he could be the one. But it hurts more to see him innocently (!) flirting with others or "forgetting" to invite me to important events.
So, yes, our previous relationship has dissolved - my feelings hasn't vanished but I can only accept this relationship again if it reappears as something else. That is if he decides to commit. I never thought deleting me immediately from social media as a hint that he cared Nontheless looks like all I can do at this point is to let go and wait.
For me though, I seldom seem to be at a loose end. In the past, my guidance has exhorted me not to get involved in too many things (which I tend to do). On the other hand I find I have to have silence when I am alone and I once asked, 'why don't I listen to music when I am at home?' I got the answer 48 line 5: 'clear cold spring water to drink' which really reinforced the message of inner listening.My husband and I have both retired and we often feel at loose ends. I asked the I Ching, "Perhaps I have finished all my important work here on earth?" Yi answered 59uc, which seemed to me a vague answer. But then, the question was vague, wasn't it? To me 59uc conveys something rigid, like blocks of ice on a river, dissolving in the spring thaw. So I took it to mean resentments and other 'hard' feelings evaporating. That's a kind of work that never ends, it seems to me.
Why 25? The thing you don't have in 59 is a secure footing other than your faith. I see one can be tossed around a great deal, it can be like looking for a raft to cling to at times. Other times it feels far more gentle and welcome, it does depend on the question and the situation of course.Perhaps Hex 25 finds a secure footing in 59 and is no longer tossed around by emotional issues?
I’m glad this had a happy resolution for you! When my cat disappeared (and was sadly killed) my hexagram was 2 unchanging. I did have closure with it at least. I still think cats are not really cats if they don’t have freedom to be wild… he lived with no fear. I still think about how he encouraged me to be more wild and fearless. However I’m very tame!My cat disappeared and I asked how he is doing if he’s even alive I got 59 dispersing no changing lines. My heart sank for I remembered and ex boyfriend that said he had a terrible experience after getting that hexagram when going to a meeting. I imagined the cat dispersed on the road somewhere or in a coyotes belly. There’s a saying in the desert that cats that go outdoors have a short lifespan because of predators. This cat was extremely curious and unafraid unlike his brother who cautiously stayed close to home. Miraculously after 6 days the cat came back and he’s still kind of a young adult at 8 months old. I was so relieved to see him and realized this hexagram spoke of not having boundaries and going out into the wide landscape which is what this cat did! In this instance the hexagram wasn’t too bad (since he returned). It is also fitting for some interpretations that call this hexagram reuniting.
I'll just offer a quick observation that ambition to 'get better at' being anything is quite a defined thing, there's goals there. 59 isn't that, 59 let's go of structures, so maybe the 'pane of glass' you refer to is connected to a kind of ambition. You are speaking in the language of ambition here, to my ear anyway, when you speak of 'real breakthrough' it sounds like something to 'achieve'. A 59 time isn't a time to pinpoint goals but rather dissolve or allow them to be dissolved..I am a dedicated meditator and student of both Buddhism and Yi, for many years now, and both practices have made me sensitive enough to my own sense of growth to know that there is a pane of glass that stands between me and real breakthrough
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