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It seems to me that the line usually comes up when there are arguments at home, but that does not seem to apply to you ...
In hexagram 37, it is said that sharp words do not cause much harm but the tittering of women and children leads to the destruction of good order within the family. By extension, the holding of resentment against your mother would not be as destructive as taking a frivolous attitude toward her. The I Ching seems to be putting forward the idea that some degree of severity or harshness between family members is not a threat to the good order of a household, even though it might be regrettable.
What should I do regarding the strong antagonism against my mother?
25 (3,4,5,6) > 36
to be honest I get the feeling I shouldnt do anything... for the amount of changing lines I expect this to still unravel into different stages or phases.
eventually we had a long conversation where things were said that had never been said before, and even though no solution was found, because we are both so bruised by the other, at least the possibility to talk made the daily hostility go away.
This is a reading on the relationship between you and your mother.
Line 3 is your relationship hai water with a man in the hidden line "you metal" not you, transfer of Chinese term for the rooster metal.
This line changes to female chen earth.
The female chem earth couples with the officer (male) under line 3.
Your ex has another female.
Line 1 and 6 of hexagram 37 are mao wood. This is probably your family members.
Mao wood is in conflict with the man hidding in line 3 you metal.
It appears that family members try to eliminate this person altogether.
To gain ground in your situation;
Hexagram 42 line 6 sibling wood produces line 5 child zi fire (you) and then produces the female in line 4 wei earth.
This means that when people or sibling supports you, you support your mom.
Since hexagram 42 is wood trigram on top (sun gentle wind) and wood trigram (chen, wood with vibration), the nature of the situation is claim. You cause the disturbance in her life, but it is not rocking the boat. It is received with a smile (a kid is still a kid in the eye of the original family).
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).