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so maybe he's waiting for her to return?
Two weeks to call you shows a great deal of interest on his part,
and perhaps he did or didn't lose your number, does it really matter now? But look at line 59.6 as it suggests that he did not want to make contact with you at the time of your question, as this was indeed correct, the phone number is really not the main issue here because even if he had lost it, he could easily ask your friend what the number was couldn't he?
And I would presume there are cell links everywhere these days, so going out of range in the US would prove to be quite difficult, but lacking any real interest in you seems easier to prove.
14 days +, so this man didn't call because he wasn't interested, as obviously "other things " were more tantalizing.
Are you sure you didn't mean "two weeks to call you shows a great deal of disinterest...?"
Here in the UK 'political correctness' has hammered away relentlessly for decades at removing any recognition of gender differences, and yet when it comes to the mating game most women still expect men to take on a traditional male approach.
Social reform has tried desperately to ignore innate biological instinctive drives and the outcome is utter confusion. Outwardly everyone is extremely cautious about breaking politically correct taboos, whilst privately they resent the loss of personal freedom and expression. The outcome is that as a society we risk a serious psychological split between a false persona and repressed complexes
The UK already has the highest divorce rate in Europe and the highest teenage pregnancy rate. There are now more unmarried and single-parent families in the UK than traditional nuclear families. Maybe this is the cost of progress, but in most other European countries where the traditional nuclear family is still used as the basic social framework there is far less evidence of fracture and the breakdown of social cohesion as seen in the UK.
Well, here we go, I hadn't expected this discussion to plummet to this level quite so quickly. This remark is so immature it belongs on the school playground. And that's where I'm going to leave it.Nah....... that's not "political correctness" that's just English men being screwed up about women....... LoL!
Oh OK so really the English are all suppressing their urge to use the "N" word with Black people? Meanwhile, what the hell is "an innate instinctive biological drive" ? That's such a loaded term.
I think the problem is more like English men can't handle strong women - they feel threatened by them poor lambs......
What about Holland, Sweden etc etc......... How come they have even stronger equality policies and none of the issues you describe?
Are you a Daily Mail reader or what LoL?
how about things like the need for a CRB check before you can even speak to a child or take a photo of your own child in the school play or volunteer to referee a football match? How about the complete loss of respect and awareness of the elderly? How about the demonising of young males with all the derogatory terms in use such as "hoodie" or "yob" etc., blah blah blah.......
Hello Openheart and Gene
I agree, there is a huge amount of confusion and necessary caution around this issue. Here in the UK 'political correctness' has hammered away relentlessly for decades at removing any recognition of gender differences, and yet when it comes to the mating game most women still expect men to take on a traditional male approach.
Social reform has tried desperately to ignore innate biological instinctive drives and the outcome is utter confusion. Outwardly everyone is extremely cautious about breaking politically correct taboos, whilst privately they resent the loss of personal freedom and expression. The outcome is that as a society we risk a serious psychological split between a false persona and repressed complexes. The UK already has the highest divorce rate in Europe and the highest teenage pregnancy rate. There are now more unmarried and single-parent families in the UK than traditional nuclear families. Maybe this is the cost of progress, but in most other European countries where the traditional nuclear family is still used as the basic social framework there is far less evidence of fracture and the breakdown of social cohesion as seen in the UK.
All this is a long way from Openheart's original question of 'why men don't ring' - but maybe the above helps to some extent to explain the confusion that now prevails. Peter
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Ultimately, it is an evolutionary matter. Boys evolved to go off to do dangerous things like hunt or fight wars and not care so much if they never get home again. Doesn't leave a lot of room for casual conversation about or even awareness of their feelings.
Frank
This is topic is a bit trite, I know, but I couldn't help myself.
I met a guy last weekend. We were introduced by a mutual friend. We seemed to hit it off and as I was leaving he asked me for my phone number and said that he would really like to see me again.
But...he hasn't called! So I asked "what should I know about M's delay in calling?"
I received 59 (dispersing) with moving lines 2, 6 to Hex 8 (union)
Line 2 seems to be about dissolving obstructions and some type of internal change. But line 6 is avoidance of danger! I keep wondering if my friend told him something about me that would make him run for the hills. Sometimes girlfriends can be well-meaning but the things they say can backfire. I'm not sure, I'll have to ask her (she's out of town right now).
I am hoping that it is simply that he has the jitters and he needs to overcome (dissolve) his fear of danger (rejection?)
Any thoughts? How does 8 Union play in to this?
Clarity,
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