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Well, putting together what you and Jesed are saying, MareMaria, that would be logical. Because that isn't saying it's mistake. It's saying she does this this way. It is her method. Only I see it as a mistake maybe. Anyway, one thing for sure, this is what she has done.
It seems now that "certain" people believe that she was lying to you because she loves you as Hex 19 suggests that the noble woman can have no ulterior or dastardly motives?
Wow! This gets sillier and sillier.
So when she stabs you in the back again, its because she really wants to teach you something of value. That's she the boss and your not, so don't go over her head again sort of thing or am I wrong again?
No, I don't think anyone has said anything of the kind. Re-read, rethink - or ignore, if you prefer, but kindly don't start arguments without reading.Willowfox said:It seems now that "certain" people believe that she was lying to you because she loves you as Hex 19 suggests that the noble woman can have no ulterior or dastardly motives?
Wow! This gets sillier and sillier.
So when she stabs you in the back again, its because she really wants to teach you something of value. That's she the boss and your not, so don't go over her head again sort of thing or am I wrong again?
And he quotes Zhuxi, suggesting he might have had this in mind:The basic meaning of lin is "look down on," from which is derived "oversee" (i.e. care for, manage, govern). "Approach" is another derived meaning, probably via lin (the same graph), the name of an ancient siege machine, "the approacher," apparently some kind of movable scaffold that allowed besiegers to fire projectiles down on and over walled fortifications.
For the most part I find the presence 'nearing' in 19 to be a positive one: stronger, more adult, more responsible, and like the character LiSe imagines who comes home and looks down benevolently over his people in the valley. However, there are other ways to 'look down on' people, and there are those who make themselves feel stronger and more secure by 'firing projectiles', like non-existent letters."Lin means 'advance and put pressure on something.' The two yang lines gradually grow strong and exert a coercive force on the yin lines."
However, there are other ways to 'look down on' people, and there are those who make themselves feel stronger and more secure by 'firing projectiles', like non-existent letters.
According to the casting I just did on "What happens if I confront X directly about this lie," the answer is Hexagram 59, judgement. That sounds like all former boundaries dissolve, all that is known is washed away. Does this means the problem dissolves? Our relationship washes away? In my heart I think she would deny having said it, having mentioned the letter at all. Can 59 mean that? I would like to think the problem of lying just dissolves, but I don't see how it could.
I've asked the IChing -- "Why won't X let me see the letter?" The casting was 23.4 changing to 35. As said, I can't find a previous situation that seems to equate with mine in the Clarity archives and I am stumped what this reading has to do with the issue. Thoughts anyone? All help is much appreciated.
Well, if I'm not mistaken, this sounds like what Trojan was saying in a different form because she was advising to do more to help and less to hinder, to add to what I was doing in aid of this person and defer to her really. And I tried to do that when it was suggested, but by then the thunder wagon was already rolling and war had been declared. Some sort of satisfaction was demanded. So have we already passed the "next" position? Or is there still something to recoup here in future benefit? I mean, hexagram 35 sounds quite positive and I can't think we've been there yet considering where matters stand now.
Just my two radishes.
She has enough sense not to make lemon meringue sausage stew with extra chilli.
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