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I asked the Yi "how can I achieve the independence that I seek". The independence I had in mind was of the emotional and self reliance type of independence.
The Yi replied with 6.2.3.6 -> 31
This is a very impressionistic immediate response...but I think the hex 6 here may refer to you trying too hard. It looks like you could not help but be influenced and so to fight it too hard sets up a conflict within you that you need to let go of for now (6.2) that you are or have been in situations where despite your good efforts you've not received a recognition of oyur individulaity....(6.3) but it isn't a mistake that it's been that way. If you fight this perceived fault in yourself too hard it may seem you make progress (in your terms) but it won't last and you'd be fighting the same battle again (6.6)
Perhaps there are boundary issues to develop...that always seems to crop up in 31...but it doesn't seem to me from this answer that total independence is a natural goal for you now. Perhaps you are a person who is naturally very receptive/responsive so it seems to me better to work with the good bits of that, see it as a kind of gift that just may need better management...or protection, hard to find the word I need...
Hmm interesting answer. Well whichever way I look at it battling your natural tendencies to be very deeply influenced by others doesn't seem the way to go...Seems to me to say to continue to allow yourself to move others and be moved by them.....being indecisive is part of that. All I can think is you may need to develop clearer boundary lines about whats your and whats theirs....see advice in 31 and the lines maybe ? All the lines in 31 seem to portray the difficulty of being influenced too much...and advise on keeping a hold on oneself and yet still remain open to influence. That seems your task. The way you perceive ideal independence now though i think Yi questions that....that ideal sets up conflict and tension within you. You may need to rethink that goal.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).