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hi ariel,
if you include the related hexagrams,
people might reply to you.
Ah - thanks for this explanation. Well...as your actual question was "what kind of a relationship should I cultivate with him?" I now see the hexagrams from a new perspective. Interesting he is leaving the country for a month or more - fits with 56. The Traveler. btw, I don't see 56. as meaning this is a situation you are new to - although certainly The Traveler visits new places that are unfamiliar, - so much as it is emphasizing the idea that people move on. (Whether that be now or 70 years from now) So I see it as a caution about bonding with someone, a caution that ultimately you will 56, move on. So perhaps you are being advised that as you consider what kind of relationship to be cultivating here it is good to consider that - much as you love the guy - if you are wanting to eventually be in a romantic relationship with someone, having an ambivalent friend around will limit you. So if he's not interested in partnership then it's better to firmly put the brakes on any hanky-panky.
On a more positive note, perhaps the I Ching here is telling you HOW to cultivate the relationship. 50uc and 1uc sound like something that has potential. Perhaps this 56 time apart is what's necessary to clear your mind and heart to be able to see if that potential is real.
The south node represents the past, where you're coming from, and the Moon represents the emotions and what you respond to. So Moon conjunct the south node might indicate your recognizing your bonding because of your similar past experiences but it could also represent a never ending holding pattern, a feeling of stuck in the past, nothing coming of all the talk, an addiction..
Clarity,
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