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All cities are expensive.As I said, I live in an expensive city.
Yes, proper barriers. Two apartments.
Perhaps where I need to put the most effort.
...the Judgey McJudgerson persona...
That would also go along better with your original question, which after all wasn't "what to do" in a nuts-and-bolts way with the house, but how to start a discussion with your husband. (Interpretation 101, Liselle, pay attention to the question )
So, how to start a discussion: establish boundaries/barriers (37.1), and insist they'll be respected, make sure of that (line 6)? Does that seem a little better?
Touche, Mr. M. E. D. O'D.I prefer Discerning O'Discernington,
or Gentle Thunder. (42?)
thank you very much.
It's just I don't think we have any good reason to conclude that about Cjisacat after a whole...*looks*...10 posts?People need little shocks from time to time,
they are good to clear cobwebs, and to awaken.
We are all doomed when we begin to think that forms are more important than substance. (this is a societal critique, not a personal one)
I hope so! From your end of the negotiation, probably just don't forget about 59.1.2.5.6 > 24 (which I still don't have any better ideas about - maybe if you look at it enough you will? Or maybe, if you kind of memorize it, keep it in mind, you'll be able to recognize something as it happens: "Oh, that's what 59 (or a moving line) was about!")Yes and it makes a lot of sense. I think he may respect the boundaries if we can properly negotiate them i.e. come to a solution that we can both live with rather than one imposing something on the other.
Yes and it makes a lot of sense. I think he may respect the boundaries if we can properly negotiate them i.e. come to a solution that we can both live with rather than one imposing something on the other.
My question was about how to approach my husband of many years about finally ending a relationship that is, indeed, over. He is delaying the end, pretending not to hear me on the subject. It's frustrating to say the least. My desire (for my/our ongoing financial health) is to divide our house into two apartments. Unconventional, yes, but perhaps the best solution in a very expensive city.
The hexagram I is received was 37.1.6 to 39.
Any thoughts are welcome.
I asked if we could successfully share the house and this is the answer: 59.1.2.5.6 to 24.
Perhaps 37.1 is advising that you don’t wait for permission or agreement - you simply begin dividing the house and setting up the new boundaries. Certainly if he comes home to find his clothes have all been moved to another room and likewise the rest of the house has been re-organized to reflect the new relationship, this will get a serious conversation started.
Also, if your new floor plan results in him getting some very cramped quarters 39, this will further inspire him to talk about what’s going on and how you’re going to proceed.
And what about if this is a marriage that's struggling not a marriage that is over.
I think that is how he sees it. We are people who like each other but who have lived in a non-romantic relationship for a long time. I finally called it because I could no longer stand it.
Somehow the two moving lines at either end seem to fit with that.59>24 makes me think of a boomerang.
Throw it away and it comes back.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
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