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Last year I had a breakup that was quite painful, from a man I loved a lot. Things started well between us, but the circumstances were bad (he had many problems in his life) and other people intervened negatively by lies and manipulations and he got influenced I think. He eventually had to move back to his home country and now I will also leave to a different one.
We have had no contact so far, for a little over a year. I am mostly over him, but still have some feelings left. I feel things are unfinished and that we should talk. Sometimes I think in therms of -what if- and wonder if he would ever want to reconcile, although I am not sure at this point that I would want to do that.
I asked I-Ching if he is going to return to me, and the answer was 12.6 > 45.
I am having a bit of a hard time interpreting that. Any insight would be appreciated.
"Bad people are not favorable to the perseverance of the noble".
Thank you for the quick reply, I appreciate that! . 45 sounds positive to me as well. May I ask from where is this quote? When I asked I-Ching from the site, I got this line:
Line 6
'Overturning the block.
Before, blocked. Afterwards, rejoicing.'
(12.6)
I take line 6 as a sign that the two of you have the potential for reconciliation. Hexagram 12 is Obstruction, but line 6 says that the obstruction is ending:Last year I had a breakup that was quite painful, from a man I loved a lot. Things started well between us, but the circumstances were bad (he had many problems in his life) and other people intervened negatively by lies and manipulations and he got influenced I think. He eventually had to move back to his home country and now I will also leave to a different one.
We have had no contact so far, for a little over a year. I am mostly over him, but still have some feelings left. I feel things are unfinished and that we should talk. Sometimes I think in therms of -what if- and wonder if he would ever want to reconcile, although I am not sure at this point that I would want to do that.
I asked I-Ching if he is going to return to me, and the answer was 12.6 > 45.
Line 6
'Overturning the block.
Before, blocked. Afterwards, rejoicing.'
Any insight would be appreciated.
Just wanting to add my two cents. I totally agree it would be good for you to reach out to your friend, otherwise you could go your whole life wondering if things might have been different. I'd just be careful to make your note something very light that doesn't require a long answer. Like, "Thinking of you and hoping life is treating you well." If he wants to be in touch that would be enough. If not, no big deal and especially if he has a new girlfriend who reads his email this will not cause him problems!
if I should take action or if I should wait(for him to take action), and I got: 49.1.4 > 39
He's with someone else and feels ok where he is. Once you take action, something will radically change in the whole situation. This whole situation is very flawed.
In 49 the two trigrams are two females fighting each other. 49 and 54 are two of the top indicators there's someone else.
It make me think about a recent divination about my marriage....38 is separation, as you say two sisters but each looking elseshere, they don't see eye to eye. Or two people are separating, as each has different goals.
Water_Lily,
to reopen communication with someone it is more necessary to talk about one's feelings. At least in the beginning. Then there may be time for clarification on misunderstandings and interference.
I think that a good white communication strategy can be useful to you: bring what you have good, your love and your sincerity. Open the gap and then see.
If instead you bring the old arguments that have separated you, rebuild the walls, reinforce the cognitive defenses that led to doubts and distrust.
The heart has no doubts. It is there that you must arrive with the sixth line leading to 45.
Rosada gave you great advice, IMO.
Don't wait too long, the synchronic moments highlighted by Yi are the allies of our actions.
good luck!
F.
So he did give you a hundred lame excuses. If this, and if that, and he clearly told you he's over the whole thing now. You're wasting your precious time on this guy Water_Lily... I don't know what you're expecting, the more you engage with this guy the more you'll continue to lose.
How did our conversation affect him? 39.4.5>62
He went back to his partner. He'll probably re-contact you if he's ever in a dire need.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).